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SOON!!

I know that lately my blogs have been few and far between. I am in the process of totally revamping and hopefully will be up and running this week. It became increasingly difficult to post and add the links, pictures, and info I wanted. So, I already have some posts done and waiting to be put up. Yea! Soon, look for advice and tips on more business wear, shoes and the dreaded socks (do you or don't you?), holiday wear, luxury items worth it, and many more. I'll be discussing specific pieces at local stores, deals, and much more. One fantastic deal I'll tell you about now is this Thursday, at Banana Republic. Stop in after 5 pm (great for you working gals), and receive 25% off purchases of $100 or more. That's a pretty substantial saving. Their holiday collection is in but don't just limit it to that, look at all the merch to see what will work with things you already have. They have great wool pants, hard to find these days for some reason. Try browsing through BananaRepublic.com to get some ideas. There is a catch, you must email me to get the coupon. I hope this is something you can use. Call me if you need some help. So, that's all for now. Stay tuned, I'll do another short one later this week (if the real one is going yet) just to keep in touch. I'd love to hear your thoughts sometime! See ya....

Does Designer Equal Quality?

I recently bought a David Meister dress through a consignor sale. I rarely find dresses that fit. I am somewhat boney and small through the chest and wider through the hips. But this, it fits so well! The construction is great and even though it is 2 or 3 seasons old, it is a pretty timeless style. Quality counts.

David Meister dress at MyPerfectSale.com

Now, I’m not saying it’s what I do all the time but when able, you bet I go for the designer piece. I try not to pay for the name unless absolutely necessary, meaning, not full price. Much of the full amount price is the name. But, a large part of the price should be, and usually is, about quality and fit. So, I check-out sales, clearance, on-line discount sites, and consignment stores. Bluefly.com, Zappos.com, pixiemarket.com, and Overstock.com are a few good sites to try.

Some designers are doing lines for chain stores like Vera Wang and Dana Buchman at Kohl’s. Target regularly has “guest” designers and just launched this season, H&M has Jimmy Choos. This may sound great and if you just want a piece with a name, fine. But, ultimately, I am a seamstress at heart and the way a dress or pair of pants is made matters to me. Especially if my hard earned pennies are buying it!

Dana Buchman shift dress at Kohls

So, when buying anything, look at seams and seam allowance, hems and hem allowance, buttonholes, lining (always a good thing), fabric content (some natural fiber mixed in is a plus), and fit. On shoes, check straps, buckles, stitching, insole, and make sure any embellishments are well attached.

Jimmy Choo merch at H&M

Hope this helps with your future purchases. Where do you find your quality pieces at great prices? I’d love to hear about them! P.S. I am still playing with formatting, font, etc. so please excuse messups!

Businesswear 2009

I have decided there is a big discrepancy between what is shown in the magazines as office appropriate clothing and what is really worn in the office. Unless you are in a high end finance, attorney, or some other elite office setting, I think the atmosphere is fairly casual. Magazines and prime time courtroom shows appeal to the sexy, feminine side of all of us with spike heels, pencil skirts, and patterned hosiery.

**This suit is by Theory and available at Bloomingdales.

But, I believe the workplace is filled with more frenzied moms whose priority is kids' lunches, get the dog outside to do his business, brush your teeth and out the door with no time to spare. I know there are the few that really do have it all together and do have time to concentrate on themselves in the mornings and that's what I'd love for everyone to have. I imagine you would feel much more empowered and capable of dealing with issues and co-workers if you felt powerful and capable.

f course, in my line of work, this plays directly to your image and style. And clothing is a huge part of that. So, how to accomplish looking your best at work? Let's just start with the basics (this will be a two-parter post; too long and I lose readers!) First, look at everything you wear to work and evaluate how it fits, what shape it is in, whether it is too casual or inappropriate. Then gather a needle and thread, lint roller, stain remover, shoe polish, and iron/steamer. Fix any loose threads, loose buttons, and falling hems, then iron or steam the garment. Work on tough stains and launder. If it doesn't come out, don't wear it. Remove pet hair and dust creases from hangers. The shoe polish will work wonders on scuffs and lengthen the life of the shoe. Don't forget the back and the heel.

Then use a critical eye and look at the way a piece fits. Are the pants sagging in the rear or pulling too tight; do blouses pull too tight across the bust; are pant hems dragging the floor; do your skirts or pants pull too tight across your stomach; do your blouses or tops rise to show your middle? All of these issues require fixing or ditching. Tomorrow, I'll discuss pieces to build a wardrobe with. But be prepared, it may require getting rid of some old favorites.

p.s. My blog is undergoing some changes, so please be patient with "construction messes!"

Deals, Steals, and Bargains!

I think it's time we talked bargains. There are quite a few to be had if you know where to look. How about Jil Sander pants for like, $14.99? Deals like this are at one of my favorite stores, UAL. I've told ya'll about this place before. I saw this particular "steal" about 2 weeks ago. Now, Jil Sander at that price isn't the norm there but it's not far off. Lanvin, Prada, Oscar, Velvet, and many others are majorly discounted, 75 to 80% off! Then, there are the unknown European designer pieces from $9.99 and up. Some are sample pieces so be sure and try on. They also carry shoes, evening wear, some vintage furs, and great jewelry. One of my favorites though are the jeans at $9.99 and they fit like a glove! And the girls there are knowledgeable and helpful. I love that place. Another great place to check out is the cute little boutique by the Brentwood Target. Blush. They have some really cute pieces at extremely reasonable prices. The inventory is fairly low and kept to a minimum. They carry a range of somewhat edgy pieces mixed with more feminine things. There is a wall of shoes and limited jewelry. One of my favorite things there are the camis in a wide range of colors. Also look at the cute jackets and coats. They get shipments regularly so the merchandise changes frequently. The next place is an old standby but with a new designer on board, the looks are changing. Ann Taylor and AT Loft. AT is getting a makeover with more feminine, hipper styles. Not so cookie cutter business looking. AT Loft is more soft, casual, and fun and is doing its' own version of a tee shirt with chiffon, ribbony detailing. There are 3 or 4 styles that are on sale now for $19.50 I think. These are great layering pieces. The one above is an expample. I hope this helps you hold on to some more of your money but yet get some cute things. If you need help at any one of these places or any other area of your wardrobe, give me a call. Thanks for reading!

These Boots Were Made For ?

Frank Sinatra's daughter made that song popular.  If you are too young to remember it, pull it up on the internet and listen.  It'll get you in the mood to get one of fall's biggest "must haves".  Boots.  They are such fun to wear.  How many kinds of footwear are there that can look so many different ways?  A pump is a pump, a ballet flat, a flat, a slingback, a ....well, you get it.  But a boot, it can be tall, ankle, over the knee, flat, high heel, mid heel, wedge, dressy, slouchy,cowboy, riding, rain, and on it goes.  For some reason a boot makes you feel invincible.  You can walk through puddles, ride a horse, strut into a room, or as the song goes, walk over someone ( not very nice but necessary sometimes, maybe?).  I just bought 3 pair. One, a black ankle to wear with tights and skirts mainly but also will be great with pants and jeans.  Another, black suede with a buckle at the top, about 3 inches below the knee.  I will wear them dressy and casual.  The third pair are dressy black which I had no intention of getting until I saw the price.  $9.99!  They were at Marti and Liz (call me if you don't know this place!) and had the slightest repair stiching on the top seam.  They are AK leather!  Can you believe it?  Just an example of some deals to be had at that shoe store.  Anyway, my boot collection has now grown to, well, we'll just say I could use a little more room.   If you are just venturing into the boot world, (Cindy, there is therapy for foot claustrophobia I'm sure) I would start with a basic black boot.  Do you like high heels?  Then go for it and they'll work with skirts for work and jeans for casual.  A pair of flat boots will inherently have a more laid back vibe but still be appropriate for pant and jeans alike.  They'll also work with knee length skirts.  If you are more adventurous, try a motorcycle look in black or brown.  I love this look with skinny jeans tucked in.  And of course, to fully feel like a Nashvillian, a cowboy boot is totally appropriate.  If you have a bit  (chunk actually) of money burning a hole in your fun fall purse, go for a pair of Frye's.  They have taken the cowboy boot above and beyond.  Not your traditional pointy toe but they now have a hipper western look.  The boots shown are from Zappos and are Frye's and the black booties are Donald Pliner.  Both to die for.  Boots do not discriminate.  They are friends to all ages, body types, skin coloring, and sizes.  You can even find wide shafts (the leg part) for those with a wide calf, which I know can be a problem.   So, no excuses not to participate in this fun, fall fashion classic.  Yes, I am declaring the boot a classic, right up there with a trench coat and a LBD.  Aren't you excited?  Ready to find the right boot for you?   Call me, I know just the pair for you.  Talk to ya soon......

Do You Remember?

There is a broadway play in the works or already done about remembering an article of clothing or a particular outfit in a woman's past and what it meant to her or what emotions the memory of it brings.  I have 2 or 3 that come to mind immediately but I will tell you about one, the earliest.  For my 9th birthday my mother made me (she made almost all my clothes until I was in 6th or 7th grade) a gray short jumpsuit.  It had little yellow flowers all over it and was sleeveless.  I think I wore a longsleeve yellow t-shirt under it.  I wore it to my birthday party.  There is a picture of me wearing it on my swingset in the backyard.  I think of fall, my mother, and playing in my backyard when  I remember it.  Oddly  enough, another memory is of  jumpsuit, made of satin, not cotton print!  I'd love to hear if you have similar memories.  Most of mine that concern clothing are good! 
On this post, I'd like to examine the picture I've attached of Natalie Portman.  I love her outfit!  There is nothing oustanding or spectacular but it is just so together, clean, and simple.  Maybe it's my love of navy and white.  I'd love to see what shoes she is wearing.  Anyway,  we'll start at the bottom.  She is wearing jeans with a pretty good flare and a dark wash.  Underneath the jacket is a Chole tunic.  You could easily replace it with a longer tee that has a bit of flare or tunics are easy to find now off the rack.  Try Gap or Old Navy.  It doesn't have to be a designer top.  The jacket and scarf make the look.  The cut of the jacket is double breasted with a flared hem.  It hits just at her waist and has 3/4 length flaredsleeves.  I guess "flare" is the opperative word here!  You may want less material or "flare" in your jacket and that's fine.  Long sleeves would be fine too.  The green scarf is a great shot of color.  More options could be wine, magenta, or deep teal.  Boots, peep-toe sandals, or maybe a suede pump would work with this outfit.  Try gray, black, or brown.  Just a word about the tunic.  To keep the length appropriate to your heigth, the hem doesn't need to go farther than below your hipbone.  If it dips in the front a bit longer that's probably ok.  So, what do you think.  Easy or hard to pull off?  Cute or not?  This look is good for a huge age range also.  If you are fairly heavy, you will want a jacked with a little more structure. 
I hope you enjoyed my venture into using pictures.  I'll try and do it more often.  My days are fast being booked.  Call soon if you want some help this fall.  Thanks......

Melinda

The Truth - Hurtful or Refreshing?

I was telling a group of women the other day (thanks for having me Allstate) that women often fall into 2 groups; dressing too young for their body type or age, or dressing too old. The ones that dress too old and frumpy are always a joy to work with. It is great to see a smile come to their face when they are told, and then realize themselves, that they really will look good in a shorter skirt. Or the cute jeans they like will be perfect on them. I am not sure why or when women begin seeing themselves older or needing to dress more boring or covered up, but it frequently happens. I think sometimes an extreme sense of modesty or I am sure certain birthdays can make you feel that way. My feeling is, no matter how old you are or modest, you can be stylish and still be age appropriate with your clothing. You see them in the mall, the older women that never got the feeling or were told "it's time to were the ugly black shoes and stop fixing your hair." They wear attractive clothing that suits them, colors, jewelry, and take time with their hair and make-up. These are women of all shapes and sizes. Then there are the ones that by age 30 have already thrown in the towel. Unfortunately, these women probably have a negative view of their shape and decided early on that pants, jeans, cute shoes, skirts, or whatever! don't fit them. Did someone tell them this or were they just too critical themselves when looking in the mirror? Whatever the case, I love to help them find that style that brings their self-image up. The other end of the spectrum and one that has to be handled with some delicacy at times, are ladies that have trouble leaving the teen years behind or are very swayed by their daughter's clothing or magazines. They will focus on the size and wish they were what they used to be, when they need to focus on the fit. These ladies have confidence which is terrific, but they need to understand what their clothing choices are saying about them. When women do this, it says to me, "my best years are gone and I'm trying to reclaim them". They portray a sense that they can't grow and mature. It can be hurtful to be told that skirts are too tight and buttons popping open isn't attractive. Again though, if they can try on a wonderful sheath dress and pumps, or an appropriate fitting jean and cute top, it begins to sink in that looking attractive and age appropriate isn't just for 20 year -olds. Harsh make-up, the wrong hairstyle, and color will age a person instead of taking years off. I told the group the other day that dressing too young very often isn't the style of clothing, it is wearing it the wrong way or the wearing the wrong size. An example might be a nice halter top for a night out. Younger girls can get by wearing a tighter style and have on a really snug pair of jeans. A more mature women can still wear that style top, but tone down the bottoms. A beautiful pair of black pants or a dark wash trouser jean. These will have a higher waist and a full leg. It's not so hard. So, is it time to take an objective look at your clothing choices? Do you fall into one of these categories? We probably all do from time to time, the point is to realize it and try to do better. Thanks for reading and I hope you have a great weekend. As always, please call if I can be of any help! Thanks......

PICKY, PICKY, PICKY

From 1st grade through almost all Sr. high school, I took the same homemade lunch to school everyday. Three peanut butter saltine crackers, two chocolate chip cookies, and probably some chips of some kind, I don't remember. I also would only eat one kind of peanut butter, Peter Pan. I had a glass of chocolate milk for breakfast, everyday. The words stubborn and picky come to mind. Unfortunately, that behavior has progressed to my sense of style as well. I have been looking for a new pair of black boots since late last winter. The right look, price, fit, heel height, etc. I am also on the look out for a new pair of regular, 5 pocket, blue jeans, since last winter. The right wash, rise, length, and fit. The words stubborn and picky come to mind, again. Is this unending search for the perfect item really necessary????? Of course not. So, recently, I have been taking my own good advice and not dismissing things at a first glance. Some restrictions will always apply; I am 5'9 so no skyscraper heels; I am 5'9 so unless it's an ankle length, the hem has to be long enough; and always price. But as far as look goes, I'm open to trying different washes, the details on denim and boots, and the height of boot shaft (the leg part). And fit, maybe a jean that looks a little tighter or a skinnier leg will work, maybe it won't, but I'm going to try. It's what I encourage my clients to do and many times with good outcomes. I'll let you know what I find.

September is here and surprisingly, some cool weather to go with it. Summer washed yellows and whites and ocean shades of blue and green give way to fall hues. Chocolate browns, the oranges and reds of maple leaves, and midnight blue to black are stocking the stores now. Are you ready? Here are some tips to refer to until autumn really hits. While we are still transitioning, use the above colors in cottons and light-weight wool or silk blends. As the days go on, wardrobe wise, your clothing choices should slowly start changing, in general, to fall shades and heavier pieces. Boots are good, some will say all year, but certainly now, with dresses and skirts for a cute, breezy fall look. If scarves have been stored for the summer heat, bring them out for cool rainy days and night time. Go with a darker nail polish to really make a statement, try deep purple or navy for a change. While summer is a time for shedding layers, opening up, and slowing down, it is inevitable that with autumn on the way, we start to close up and hurry up in several ways. Front doors will close and the firewood will come in, gardens will die down to wait for spring, and we begin to pull out the comfortable, warm clothes. Long evening walks will stop and leisurely trips to the mailbox or to walk the dog become sprints. I'm always a little sad when this begins but, like clockwork, I start to remember the joys of fall and events only experienced in the cold weather. And, on a more shallow note, if I'm going to a football game to see people I haven't seen in months, or years, then I'm going to look good while I'm there! When the invite to a bonfire at a friend's farm comes, I plan to have a great new pair of cords to wear. Take these last weeks of summer and start taking stock of fall pieces needed or desired and make a list. Then, call me and let's get to it! No, it's not all about clothes but they sure make the seasons changing more enjoyable. Thanks for reading....

GLITTER + GLAM = GAUDY?

While doing my job of scanning all the fall fashion magazine issues (so difficult),  I realized that the 80's revival is more prevalent than I realized.  I knew that the neon, harem pants, and wider shoulder theme had been around for 2 or 3 seasons now, but some designers really focused on these looks during fashion week and the fall shows.   I can embrace almost all styles, some more than others.  I like the look of high-waisted pants with a narrow hem and ankle boots.  It's sharp and edgy for the right body.  I also like a piece clothing in neon pink with the right outfit.  Marc Jacobs showed a lot of bright pink in his show.  And glitter and sparkle I really enjoy, even in the day.  But, what us regular folks have to remember is that models in fashion shows and mannequins in store windows are dressed to make a statement and sell clothes.  And, while we want to look great and even stand-out at times, we are not on display or on a runway.   My goal as a stylist is to take the best of any trend and see if it works on you while maintaining your style and anchoring the look in basic pieces.  Some trends won't work at all and some we bypass all together. I don't think I'll ever love acid washed jeans again, and yes, they are back.   The 80's fashion flashback is just that, a flashback and a trend.  These looks come and go and shouldn't be confused with the classics that most of us try to fill our wardrobe with.  So, take this trend with a grain of salt, meaning, include small bits and pieces in your wardobe but don't invest the big bucks in this look.  It shouldn't hang around for too many more seasons. Do glitter and neon equal gaudy?  No, not gaudy,  but it does require some time and effort to pull it off, and then, make sure you don't go overboard.  Enjoy these decade trends as they come along then fondly say goodbye!  Always stay on the look-out for ways to buy and add well made, solid name classics to your wardrobe when you can. I hope you have a great week, and as always, call if you need me.  

What's Your Style?

I have tried to figure out how to post pictures from the Internet onto my blog. I haven't had any success. I want to post pictures of everyday women/girls in all sorts of cute looks. You know, the ones they come up with that look effortless and right. I think I might get brave enough to just start taking them on my own (with the person's permission of course) and posting them. I love the mags that show the stylish girls on the street. I find it so interesting to know what their profession is and where their clothes came from. Was it a designer or a consignment shop? I'm also the kind that notices the clothes in movie scenes, reads the little print that tells who the designer is and the price in a magazine layout, reads fabric labels, and mentally re-dresses people in the mall I(I could sit and people watch for quite a while!). I've said before even if I don't like it, I love someone that works a "look". Whether it's boho, classic, vintage, or glamorous, if it's done right, it looks good. I think I am a variety of styles on any given day. There are certain pieces I love that I'll always use like.... my cowboy boots, casual skirts, 1 or 2 pair of great jeans, fun tops, and a variety of nice cardigans. These choices kinda land me in a more casual group. It all depends on mood, the next day I might choose a pencil skirt and pumps. What style are you? Have you bought something thinking "it's not me"? More than likely, you won't wear it if you have. I do encourage my clients to branch out, but take baby steps. There is nothing worse than buying an item and having it sit in your closet reminding you of your mistake. My best advice is, stay with-in your comfort zone but on occasion, include a really great top, shoe, skirt, or accessory you may not normally wear. Make sure it works with an outfit you already own and you will be more likely to wear it. Figure out your style by taking inventory of your wardrobe and see what category most of the pieces fall into. You probably already know. Do you lean toward the artsy, bohemian look? Or, do you have a closet full of carpi's, cardigans, and button up tops? More than likely, you also stick to one or two stores. That's a big clue to your type too. Again, all of that sameness is fine but you run the risk of becoming staid and predictable. Try and be on top of things and know when to bring in another opinion and a fresh eye. It will help in keeping clothing current and in style. You don't need to overhaul your style, it is a reflection of your personality, just weed out what doesn't work anymore and add a few things that will accentuate and keep your wardrobe fresh. Style doesn't just encompass clothing, it can refer to many aspects of your life, but the way you dress is usually what others notice first. As always, call if you need me and enjoy these last, wonderful summer days....

Have you noticed?

It's just awful. Fall is already creeping into retailers. I think (until around September) I am a true summer girl. Sandals, pink toes, shorts, sun, lightweight tops, warm nights. I love it. But, if you love clothes like me, by late August, certainly September, you will be lusting after the beautiful sweaters, cool boots, and will have to have a new pair of jeans! But, until that time, let's enjoy what we've got. Hot days and warm nights. If you are really into being in style, late this month you will want to start concentrating on bringing in the muted shades of fall. Mustard yellow, burnt orange, midnight and denim blues, deep reds, wines, and deep, dark greens. You can still pair these with whites or, go ahead and do a total fall palette but with breezy cottons and linens to keep it summer weight. Truly though, July is really time to embrace all the summer trends to their fullest. Shorts with heels, all white, red, white, and blue/nautical looks, sundresses, straw hats and bags, bright, colorful jewelry, layered tanks, and of course swimsuits. The great thing is, it's also a fantastic time to buy all of the above! Most stores have already taken good markdowns so decide what you need/want but didn't want to spend on and see if it is still available. Or, check online. Try boutiques that have to make the sale for pieces that no one else will be wearing. I haven't been to UAL lately but they are usually a good place to browse. As you are making the most of the rest of the summer, don't get lazy and think the slow pace means dumpy t-shirts and baggy shorts. Whether it's the park, grocery, movie, farmer's market (love it), or the Hill Center, if you are out among the public, make an effort. It's worth it and much more desirable to be noticed for your simple skirt, tank, and cool jewelry than your Titans (whom I love) t-shirt and crocs (also fine in the right place; must dwell on where that is). So, get out there, look cute, and don't burn! Call if you need me, thanks......

Dog Days Require White

Those of you that I have worked with have probably picked up on the fact that I love white. Pairing it with color, with black, with khaki, with more white, I just love it and the looks you can create with it go on forever. So, with the "dog days" upon us, what is going to keep you the most cool other than white, or very light colored clothing. Or of course, a pool. I guess one of the first white basics to mention would be white jeans. I like these for night when the sun isn't blazing; you can wear some great heels and a halter top, or a tunic that comes past the rear-end for a different look. A more casual approach could be to add a cute eyelet or swiss dot top cut more full with some flats. Another basic white to check into is shorts. Length may be determined by age but if you are young enough with fairly shapely legs, go for short shorts and wear flats. If you choose to be daring, wear for a wedge with maybe a rope heel; tooooo cute. For this look, keep the top more modest and not extremely tight. If you wear a walking or "city" short, go with most any top, tees work for casual, and tops that show a little skin are fun. This length takes heels well also. White skirts are always a good plan, full and flirty are also cool and you just look like you are having fun. Double up 2 different colored tanks with a beachy chain and flipflops and you're good to go. A tight pencil skirt will work for nice dinners, brunches, and can go to a wedding if your top is colorful. These also look beautiful with summer jackets and cardigans and peep toes. White cropped pants or jeans with embellished tees and cute heels (think JCrew catalog) or a cotton sun top will take you to almost any place you need to go. And of course, the white shirt/blouse; for the summer, roll up the sleeves loosely and pair it with your black skirt and pumps for work or wear one with fitted long shorts(khaki would be very safari) and flats, again, roll the sleeves. However you choose to do it, wear something white. I think my all time favorite is navy and white. It's just so cool and summery, and very appropriate for July 4th! Enjoy the rest of your June, time flies when you are stylishly dressed! Call me....

Necessary Things

It has been tooooo long!!  Kids are home from college, 2 new kittens, gardening to be done, etc.  My house is and has been a mess for about 3 weeks now.  Kittens and kids newly home at the same time are not a good idea.  But, it is a full house with basically happy sounds, so it's ok.  And the kids are certainly necessary for me, the kittens just a bonus.  Aren't they the most precious things ever?  (so mad! I am typing the rest of this for the second time, who know where it went!!)  Okay, so summer is almost upon us and the feeling is good!  I love it, sun-kissed bare skin, pedicures, light layers of jewelry, scarves, and cardigans, not wool coats and sweaters.  Another plus for many, laid back schedules and fun outdoor events.  So, there are some warm season basics everyone needs to consider to round out the summer look.  The first is a cute summer skirt.  Whether it is a floral, solid, or print, make sure it hits right around your knee (too long and it looks prairie, to short and you look like a teenager), look for one with a little fullness, and inset pockets are a fun and handy addition.  Keep the top slim with an interesting neckline or slight embellishment for fun.  Another basic I recommend is a great cardigan.  Several local stores are carrying them now, AT Loft, Gap, and J. Crew come to mind.  A great cardigan can be the focal point of your outfit with all the cute details  they have now.   Look for ruffles, tissue trim and rosettes, pearl buttons, or pretty embroidering.  Light-weight cotton, silk, or even cashmere are great choices for the summer.   Wear them with everything; jeans, shorts, skirts, sundresses, everything!  The next "must have", I have written about before.  Metallics,and they are still very much in demand.  You can go with shiny threads shot through the material or used for embroidery, get a pretty silvery belt for white jeans, or look for a cool bronze gladiator sandal.  I love bronze, it goes with everything!  And remember, you can mix metallics.  One more thing I think you need is a fun bead necklace.  It can be a long chain or chunky choker.  Look for clear beads mixed with pearl look alikes or clear colors, or wooden beads and natural stones.   Fun and hip!

Well, I had planned on writing about the dressy events you need that "go to" outfit for but I think I'll stop now since this is my second time to do this!  I'll cover that next week.  I hope your first week of June is wonderful and warm.  Thanks and as always, call if I can help.  

 

You Can Do Better Than That!

Okay, I am tired of writing and having to qualify everything I say because of the economy. So for this post, pretend it's all good. Unless you lost your job, then I am truly sorry. But, since I can't know that, I am writing like we can all go shopping. Yea!!! I am going to cover a couple different topics this post. The first is overcoming your "can'ts, don'ts, won'ts". It never fails, I start a consultation with a client and began to hear, "well, I don't show my arms", or "I don't like to wear white", or "I can't wear pants". Many have lived for years thinking these negative thoughts and not including certain pieces of clothing in their wardrobe. The real problem is that they haven't taken the time or gone through the frustration of trying on again, and again, and again to find the proper fit or style for the area of concern. It almost always comes back to body issues. Yes, a gathered elastic band sleeve will make your upper arm look larger, and yes, pants have different rises and cuts. And of course, if the pant or top doesn't fit right, white may not be flattering. But, it is my firm belief that every body can be dressed in a flattering, stylish way. Even in white. Now, if it is personal taste, then I understand that. But I hate to see women and men, veering away from colors and styles because they are unsure of how to wear them. And let me end by saying, there are styles, cuts, and colors that will look better than others. But, until you take the time to try on, you may never get past that negative belief you've been carrying around with you. And, you can do better than that! The other topic I wanted to cover is what I have labeled the "3 blocks of colors". It is not a good thing! I am talking about an outfit comprised of, for instance, a navy blazer, a khaki pant, and a white shirt. Or, a denim skirt, a brown shirt, and a cream cardigan. What's wrong with that? It's BORING. As your are putting your outfits together, try to incorporate some layering with tanks or camis of a complementing color. Try layering a tank under a sheer top then top with a simple cardigan. Another option is to make sure you have some prints in your wardrobe. Tops, sweaters, and jackets in a cute print over or under a solid is an easy fix. Picture a cute silky floral top under your cream sweater with your denim skirt. Then add a pair of ballet flats or gladiator thong sandals and you've got a look! With that look you included some more visual interest with a print. Also, include accessories like a cool necklace of chunky beads, a long interesting chain, a scarf, or belt a long tee. These can become a focal point for an outfit. Using depth (layering), visual interest (embellishments like beading, prints, or ruffles), and an accessory as a point of interest will make you look put together and in style. One word of caution, don't do all three together. So, tomorrow when you look in the mirror if you see "3 blocks of color", go back to your closet because you can do better than that! As always, call me for help with any of these or other wardrobe malfunctions! Thanks........

This One's for the Guys

After talking with a couple guy clients (few and far between!) I realized I had not done a post covering some general rules for them. So, if you are a guy that needs some style help or know one, read on....These tips will cover general fit. The "rules" on these are not terribly complicated. We'll start with jackets, excluding outerwear since it's almost May....jackets or blazers will usually almost fit most men. Vague huh? By that I mean that many times, a sleeve may need to be hemmed or the sides seams taken in a bit. Some dept. store employees can help you with this, look for a yellow or white tape measure around their neck, or ask if the store has a tailor. If you buy at say, TJ Maxx, you will need a tailor (they won't have one) to look at the fit. Shoulders shouldn't droop, sleeves should show about a 1/4 " of shirt sleeve, lapels should lay flat, no pulls or wrinkles across the shoulders and vents should not be pulled open, 1 vent for regular shaped/sized men, 2 for a fuller backside. Unless you will be layering a sweater regularly, stick to a slim cut that gently hugs, not restricts. This style will be fine with trousers or jeans, a looser blazer will always say casual. A midnight navy blazer or suit is always a good start and pay attention to details like fabric (no polyester!), stitching, lining, buttons etc. Single breasted is best and buy the best quality you can. Trousers/pants are next. Some of the same rules will always apply, pay attention to the details, they say quality. Your waist size is the measurement around your waist at the top of your hipbone, but let a tailor measure you and then remember it! The rise is the length of the fly, too long and your pants are up to high, too short and you have low riders. Not good. Inseam is length from crotch to cuff, again, let someone else measure it and remember it. Pants should fit snug but not tight at the waist right above your hipbone. Length should hit the top of your shoe with some crease (called the break), and about 1/2" to 1" up your shoe heel from the floor. We don't want to see your socks much when you walk. And a word about pleats, generally no. Unless you really need it in the stomach area or a tailor tells you the pants will drape better, no. You don't need too much fabric and they should fit like a jacket, skim the body. Right now, summer weight wool or a blend, cotton or a blend, is what you should be wearing. Jeans will have to wait for another post! Shirts are last. So much to decide, color, print, button-down, atheletic fit, etc. The same fit rule applies here also, the shirt should skim your body but not pull when seated or at the buttons, sleeves should fall in the crook between the base of your thumb and your wrist, when buttoned, 2 fingers should fit between your neck and the collar, tail needs to be long enough not to come untucked when seated (the untucked look is another post also!), big shoulders may need 2 pleats in the back, and on everyone the seams need to lay on the muscles right behind your shoulder (deltoids I'm told).Okay, that's alot of info to consider. Take it in and if you do go shopping, try and buy the best quality you can. As they say, you can spot a cheap suit a mile away! If you need help I am great at finding deals but keep in mind you will probably need to make friends with a tailor! See ya next time.... ps..spell check was out so please forgive mistakes!

Reality, Body Image, Metallics, and Michelle

I had minor back surgery a couple weeks ago and would usually have spent my recovery time reading and watching news channels ( I am a news/political junkie). Unfortunately, I got so down watching all the economy junk, I turned to reality t.v. What a circus some of that stuff is! But, while watching, and I don't even remember all the ones I watched, I realized so many of the women were so focused on the perceived negatives about their bodies. So, many times they over emphasized other parts, their make-up, hair, over tanning etc. I also read an article in Glamour maybe? about how we pay so much attention to every bump and flaw. It's hard not to try and hide what we don't like but I believe all shapes and sizes can be dressed and styled to be attractive. For instance, there are women that are not a size 6 or physically beautiful, but when make-up, hair, and clothing that fits is done tastefully, current, and age appropriate, these women can turn heads. I wish I could think of an example. All this to say, take the time and effort to look like the best you. Sure, work out, get pedicures if you want, highlight your hair if needed, and dress stylishly, but not to an extreme and it needs to be what works for your body, age, life, not someone on a magazine cover or tv screen. Maybe an example could be former first lady Laura Bush. She certainly is not supermodel material but on I believe their 2nd inaugural ball, she wore a white gown, 2 piece I think, and looked beautiful. She was the example of beauty and grace. Through out their term the way she carried herself and her demure style fit her perfectly. Which brings me to our present first lady. I tried to resist the hoopla about her and take more time deciding but I don't need more time. What fun to have such a fashion forward first lady! She looks spectacular. Note, not a size 6 but so toned, no really high heels, key accessories, make her really stand out. Check-out mrs.o.org for more pictures of her. Well, I will end on some fashion do's for the season and summer. Anything metallic. Purses, shoes, tops, scarves. Get something that shines! Florals. Even shoes have flowers on them. Try a billowy top or an A-line skirt. Maybe a cute pair of JCrew shorts. The last do is a great blazer or jacket. Unstructured or fitted, 3/4 or long sleeve, whatever will do. They pull an outfit together wonderfully and if you buy right, it can take you into fall easily. Oops, not the last, the last do is a "look at me" shoe. Get a metallic gladiator sandal or a red pump or a rocker chic wooden platform or a beautiful summer sandal. Go to Payless if you need to but get one! Ok, that's it for now. As always, call if I can be of any help. Thanks........

Tailor Made

I drive an old Ford Expedition. I used to call it a car. It was top of the line, all the bells and whistles. Now I call it my truck. I am naming it Martha right now. After all the wear and tear over the years, she really can't claim to look or drive like a car. I have hauled dogs, cats, (alive and dead), chickens, turtles, ( I have 2 boys), wreaths, Christmas trees, luggage, pine straw, baseball, football, track, and hockey gear, bridles, saddles, groceries, wet children and towels, and babies in car seats and all that entails. I have changed diapers in it, eaten in it, gotten dressed, and slept in it. The back window has been broken out, the windshield broken by a water balloon (fyi, it's just like a rock hitting the car), paint sprayed on it, the sunroof broken, crayons melted in it, the alternator replaced mid 14 hour trip (providential Southern help on a Saturday afternoon, rural Alabama), and the bumper dented. Right now, it (Martha) is covered in dust from road construction in front of my house, plus I have a gravel drive, and live on a mini farm and all the mess that comes with that. I have vacuumed/cleaned out sand, rocks, manure, dirt, leaves, and food. Thankfully, Martha has never been wrecked. But like I said, she's old and I can't buy a newer one until I can pay most all in cash (husbands' rules). And the one I want isn't cheap, Volvo, Lexus, or Land Rover SUV. So, I am stuck washing, vacuuming, dusting, and changing tires and oil as needed. All this personal information to tell you that in this economy, mending and tailoring to make a nice piece of clothing serve you longer is a smart choice to make if needed. A classic designer blazer or even just a very nice one can be updated easily and fairly reasonably by a professional tailor. A tailor is a person that can go into the seam or under linings, or take an article of clothing apart and "tailor" it to fit you. Even change the design to modernize the style. They do much more than hem. They can take a pant and reduce the fullness if needed, adjust the waistband, or take out pockets. I have a tailor I use that is reasonable and timely. She works out of her home. I don't have her permission to put her name out on the web but if you call or email, I can give you her name and number. Please tell her you got her name from me. Maybe I'll get a reduced price on my clothes! Anyway, these days, most people are trying to save a few pennies. So, if you want your old Brooks Brothers classic white shirt to be more fitted and look more 2009, or if you've gained a couple pounds and need the waistband let out of your favorite pants and new isn't in the picture, get them tailored. It'll help her business and your pocket. Waiting for something isn't too hard, trust me. But, if you can afford new, then go and buy. And call me, I can save you time and money (it's true). The retailers could use you and so could I! Don't let the economy get you down, surely we've about hit bottom and then up is the only way to go! Have a great week and I hope to hear from you soon, Martha and I would love to pay you a visit.

Do you need to know what these words mean???

What words you ask? These: dhoti, ombre, peplum, or cage coat/shoes. Basically, no, you don't need to know what they mean. Except for peplum, which is actually a clothing construction term that has been around forever, the others you probably won't ever hear in casual conversation. Dhoti describes an Indian pant that resembles the harem pant of the 80's and is making a timid comeback. Unless you work in the fashion industry and are fairly modelesque, I wouldn't try them. They are being shown in fashion magazines and are really just confusing the general public that have begun to embrace wearing a slightly flared leg, not tapered! Ombre is a fabric with graduated shades of a color. It can resemble a high class tie~dye print. Generally you will see it made into skirts and dresses. I included peplum because some spring styles are showing it on jackets and tops. A peplum is a hem constructed of a gathered or flared piece of material below a seam. A short, fitted peplum jacket is a cute look this season. The word cage is being used to describe material that looks like just that, a cage. I've seen a leather jacket, shoe, and a skirt, all leather with a cage look. Obviously, the jacket and skirt would require something underneath! The shoes were a platform sandal and the cage look went up the calf about midway. Interesting. So, maybe 2 or 3 out of the 4 may catch some fashionista's fancy. But, the most important tip I'd like to convey is about pant length and hem width. The cut that is flattering to most women, and you've heard it a thousand times, is a slight flare or, if you are larger, a cut that hangs from the top of the thigh down. Generally your pants should be no shorter than 1/2 way up your shoe heel. Oh, just call me and I'll show you! Hope you have a great rest of the week.

"I thought a wardrobe was what Lucy went through to get to Narnia"

Isn't that a great line! Thanks to Suzanne for that hilarious quote. Now she knows it is so much more and she looks great. Now onto what to wear when it is February and 70 degrees! On days like today, it is sooooo easy to start pulling out the tanks and sandals. But, in reality, we will have more days in the 30's and probably sleet or snow. So, lets talk about what you can do until spring is really here. First of all, start with bringing in lighter spring colors in your tops and scarves. For instance, in the fall, you might have worn pumpkin colors and purples to go with a chocolate brown tweed skirt/suit/pant. Now, try a pretty pink blouse and winter white knit sweater vest or a light blue cardigan with a crisp white shirt underneath. Or instead of black or wine colored tops with a pair of black pants, try light grey and yellow. Get a fun, bright spring trench coat or a couple cardigans or boyfriend sweaters in peachs and pinks. Secondly, use these colors for accessories too like scarves and jewelry. Your color tones should go from fall and winter palettes to spring shades. Another way to start spring early is to get a great fitting pair of white jeans. Make sure they are not a lightweight cotton but are a heavier weight denim. They will take you a long way. If they are skinny, roll them up and wear with a bright flat or tuck them into a good black boot with a black turtleneck. Or get a straight cut and wear them with a pretty tan driving moc (think Gwennyth Paltrow in the Tods ads) and khaki jacket. So many options! Hopefully this answers some questions about transitional dressing. We can't ditch the coats and boots yet but soon! Next time I'll be talking about 2009 spring trends, can you say "dhoti" pants?? Please call if I can help at any time! ( Blogger was sick tonight so if there are font changes or misspells, sorry)

Work Through It!

In the past several weeks, I have had a number of clients with very specific fit issues. They were discouraged by the trouble they had finding clothing that looked good and fit their body well. And every time I work with someone that is short-waisted or not the size they would like or is 6 feet tall or whatever! I realize how much these issues factor into a person's self-confidence. We naturally focus on our flaws when we look in the mirror and our eyes zero in on the perceived problem area. So, if you are one of the many people that go into a store, look around, feel overwhelmed, try on one thing, in one size, and leave believing that you can't wear cute stuff, I am writing to you! Don't be afraid of the word tailor. Don't see extra dollar signs and don't think inconvenient. When you are buying a garment at many times, 30% to 50% off retail price, you can spend ten dollars to turn up a hem or take in a waistband. First of all, make sure you try and buy well-made pieces. Look for some percentage of a natural fiber, lining is a plus, detailing is a plus, look for big hems. You can come across decently constructed clothing even at discount stores. Try the designer names at Target and Kohls. A dry cleaner can let out or turn up a hem but for anything much more detailed I would recommend a tailor. Everyone needs business now so call some different places and price compare. I've got a name I can give you also. A tailor is going to be your best bet for dealing with clothes that just don't seem to work for you. Another bit of advice is shop within your size range and go up in size if needed. There is hardly a true 8 or 10 anymore. Sizes within brands and stores fluctuate greatly. I even tell my clients if something is a just a tad small or big, try on one more of the exact same size. Sometimes you will get that small bit of change to make the fit just right. If you are 5'4 and under you are technically petite but that doesn't mean some sizes in the regular department won't work also. Finding the right fit can take time and effort. Shoes can be a problem area also. Some of my clients don't wear heels or have to have a slingback for instance. The perfect shoe may have a heel that is too high for comfort. A cobbler (shoe doctor) can work wonders. They can stretch shoes and cut down heels along with fixing buckles, zippers, etc. Even shoe departments in the store can work on some fit issues. So ask before deciding the perfect shoe isn't so perfect. So the moral of this blog is, you can wear the cute stuff, your body doesn't present so much of a problem that we can't find modern, hip, fun looks that fit you well. So as always, call me and we'll work through it together!

Loose Ends

Happy Inauguration Day!! Take a moment to appreciate history in the making with another Presidential election. I have lately been reading biographies (Daniel Boone, Abigail and John Adams) and the freedom to have our own country and President was won by men who lived their lives for this sole purpose. So, say a prayer, do a little dance, honk your horn, or whatever to salute our forefathers and Presidents past and present, whether you agree with them or not! History lesson over. So what fashion problems have been bugging you lately? Do the jeans not look right or you don't know how to wear the dreaded "skinny" jean? What about flats when it's 20 degrees, do you really not wear socks? What is the "it" item to have right now? On the jeans, I'd have to see how you are wearing them to answer. As for the flats, yup, you're gonna be cold, or wear boots. There is not really an "it" item I don't think. Sweater dresses are big, scarves are big, boots are big, and I could go on. Just remember when buying a piece of clothing, look at the fit, not at the number or letter that tells the size. I would like to say that while evaluating your clothing, give your make-up and hair a fresh look also. I am not an expert in those areas but I do know it is easy not to be objective, so visit a make-up counter for new ideas and ask for suggestions at your next haircut. Last week, I visited what I had declared several months ago as "my new favorite store", and unfortunately the downturn in the economy seems to have hit it also. While there were still deals, the store seemed to be lacking its' "wow" factor this time. Not as much merchandise and kinda picked over. On the cool side, they were carrying some vintage furs and hats. This week I will be doing some boutique browsing so I will report back soon. Now is the time to be enjoying all your heavy sweaters, scarves, cute coats and jackets, and cords because toward the end of February we will start having some of those spectacular glimpses of spring with mild temps and gorgeous sunshine. You will want to start breaking out the flipflops and linen pants but refrain for awhile. Transition months can be difficult but we'll discuss that later. For now, put another log on and appreciate all the beautiful textures and wovens of winter wear. Lastly, have you noticed I like to use quotation marks, I like the "pow" they give to a word. But English majors, don't be alarmed, I know I overuse them, misuse commas and apostrophes, and have run-on sentences. At least I recognize my mistakes! But, I do use spellcheck, good for me. As always, call if I can help with your wardrobe questions. See ya later!

No Resolutions!

This is Mason Elizabeth Parker, the cutest thing since my babies! She is my great niece and we want to thank God for a safe delivery for mom and Mason. Her great-grandmother is holding her!! Now, on to fashion!

I am an anti-resolutionist ( I think I made that word up). I think for many people they are a set up for failure. I like challenges and dares better. Such as "I bet you can't go without chocolate for 3 days" or "I dare you to walk a mile over 4 days". You know, small doable things but with a bit of, can you or can't you, thrown in for good measure. So, with that quirky train of thought, what about a fashion challenge. We'll call it Style Dare 2009. Every week try one thing, place, action, etc. new. Like, a color you don't usually wear, or heels instead of flats, or tights instead of hose, or throw out an item you haven't worn in a year, or shop at a different store than usual, or don't be afraid to show your legs, or have a make up expert give you some tips, or change an outfit from flashy to classy. That list right there gives you around 7 or 8 ideas. Look at a fashion magazine to see how some things are supposed to be worn to give you some guidance and confidence. January is normally a time for self-reflection and we shouldn't disregard our appearance during our time of assessing the things we need to change. Obviously, the way you look effects you and how people react to and perceive you. So, on January 4th, decide what the challenge will be and DO IT! That's my motivational talk for now. As for style news, I don't have much to comment on at the moment. Just a few tips; dresses are huge and will be all year; also, blazers with are being worn with tons of things, and a last thing to consider is accessories. Accessories can make or break an outfit and for the financially strapped, can update your look quickly and economically. If you would like me to work with you it would be a pleasure so please email or call, I'll help you spend that Christmas cash or gift cards (which by the way should be spent quickly lest the store goes out of business!). That's all for now, I hope your holidays were filled with love, family, and friends. Happy New Year!!