You Can Do Better Than That!

Okay, I am tired of writing and having to qualify everything I say because of the economy. So for this post, pretend it's all good. Unless you lost your job, then I am truly sorry. But, since I can't know that, I am writing like we can all go shopping. Yea!!! I am going to cover a couple different topics this post. The first is overcoming your "can'ts, don'ts, won'ts". It never fails, I start a consultation with a client and began to hear, "well, I don't show my arms", or "I don't like to wear white", or "I can't wear pants". Many have lived for years thinking these negative thoughts and not including certain pieces of clothing in their wardrobe. The real problem is that they haven't taken the time or gone through the frustration of trying on again, and again, and again to find the proper fit or style for the area of concern. It almost always comes back to body issues. Yes, a gathered elastic band sleeve will make your upper arm look larger, and yes, pants have different rises and cuts. And of course, if the pant or top doesn't fit right, white may not be flattering. But, it is my firm belief that every body can be dressed in a flattering, stylish way. Even in white. Now, if it is personal taste, then I understand that. But I hate to see women and men, veering away from colors and styles because they are unsure of how to wear them. And let me end by saying, there are styles, cuts, and colors that will look better than others. But, until you take the time to try on, you may never get past that negative belief you've been carrying around with you. And, you can do better than that! The other topic I wanted to cover is what I have labeled the "3 blocks of colors". It is not a good thing! I am talking about an outfit comprised of, for instance, a navy blazer, a khaki pant, and a white shirt. Or, a denim skirt, a brown shirt, and a cream cardigan. What's wrong with that? It's BORING. As your are putting your outfits together, try to incorporate some layering with tanks or camis of a complementing color. Try layering a tank under a sheer top then top with a simple cardigan. Another option is to make sure you have some prints in your wardrobe. Tops, sweaters, and jackets in a cute print over or under a solid is an easy fix. Picture a cute silky floral top under your cream sweater with your denim skirt. Then add a pair of ballet flats or gladiator thong sandals and you've got a look! With that look you included some more visual interest with a print. Also, include accessories like a cool necklace of chunky beads, a long interesting chain, a scarf, or belt a long tee. These can become a focal point for an outfit. Using depth (layering), visual interest (embellishments like beading, prints, or ruffles), and an accessory as a point of interest will make you look put together and in style. One word of caution, don't do all three together. So, tomorrow when you look in the mirror if you see "3 blocks of color", go back to your closet because you can do better than that! As always, call me for help with any of these or other wardrobe malfunctions! Thanks........