Too Snooty? Too Expensive? Which One?

Let me just say from the start, if you looking for a stylist, of course I should be your choice! Now that that's out of the way, lets answer some of the title's questions and be a bit more objective. Are you being a snob by using a stylist? No. If you recognize that you look dated, you hate to shop, you think nothing fits, don't keep up with styles, or don't have time, you are being smart by asking for help. The same way a person would use an interior designer or a professional photographer. If it is embarrassing to you, the process can be and should be done very discreetly. Secondly, is it too expensive? Well, that depends. If you are barely making your house payments, have lots of debt, and your utilities have been turned off then, buy a fashion magazine, go to Target and copy the looks! If you are doing better than that then you could probably afford an hour or two consultation/ shopping with some freelance stylists. Ask questions, how can I maximize my dollar? Tell the consultant, "I want to shop at Target or Gap sale items, not BCBG or Jamies". Ask if you can dictate the time spent, time = money. A well known, industry stylist will charge more than others. Thirdly, which stylist do you choose? Talk to two or three. You will probably connect better with one. Can they tell you where to go to find the look you are trying to achieve or better yet, will they be honest and tell you if it isn't right for you? Do they even know what and where BCBG or Jamies is and can they find similar looks at discount prices if that is your goal? If stores such as Jaimies and Posh are where you like to shop, does your consultant feel comfortable at those retailers? Does the stylist have the ability to determine what looks best on your body type? Can you find some information on their background, experience, degrees, and do they have references? A great ad and fun personality are certainly worth noticing but go a little farther to be sure. Lastly, try and make sure you will enjoy the process and end up happy with the experience.