Style Express

I've Moved!

2009-11-05T20:12:00.005-06:00

Please visit my new website at The Style Express. Thanks for your continued reading! See you there.....Melinda

SOON!!

2009-11-02T10:18:00.003-06:00

I know that lately my blogs have been few and far between. I am in the process of totally revamping and hopefully will be up and running this week. It became increasingly difficult to post and add the links, pictures, and info I wanted. So, I already have some posts done and waiting to be put up. Yea! Soon, look for advice and tips on more business wear, shoes and the dreaded socks (do you or don't you?), holiday wear, luxury items worth it, and many more. I'll be discussing specific pieces at local stores, deals, and much more. One fantastic deal I'll tell you about now is this Thursday, at Banana Republic. Stop in after 5 pm (great for you working gals), and receive 25% off purchases of $100 or more. That's a pretty substantial saving. Their holiday collection is in but don't just limit it to that, look at all the merch to see what will work with things you already have. They have great wool pants, hard to find these days for some reason. Try browsing through BananaRepublic.com to get some ideas. There is a catch, you must email me to get the coupon. I hope this is something you can use. Call me if you need some help. So, that's all for now. Stay tuned, I'll do another short one later this week (if the real one is going yet) just to keep in touch. I'd love to hear your thoughts sometime! See ya....

Does Designer Equal Quality?

2009-10-23T14:44:00.006-05:00

I recently bought a David Meister dress through a consignor sale. I rarely find dresses that fit. I am somewhat boney and small through the chest and wider through the hips. But this, it fits so well! The construction is great and even though it is 2 or 3 seasons old, it is a pretty timeless style. Quality counts.

David Meister dress at MyPerfectSale.com

Now, I’m not saying it’s what I do all the time but when able, you bet I go for the designer piece. I try not to pay for the name unless absolutely necessary, meaning, not full price. Much of the full amount price is the name. But, a large part of the price should be, and usually is, about quality and fit. So, I check-out sales, clearance, on-line discount sites, and consignment stores. Bluefly.com, Zappos.com, pixiemarket.com, and Overstock.com are a few good sites to try.

Some designers are doing lines for chain stores like Vera Wang and Dana Buchman at Kohl’s. Target regularly has “guest” designers and just launched this season, H&M has Jimmy Choos. This may sound great and if you just want a piece with a name, fine. But, ultimately, I am a seamstress at heart and the way a dress or pair of pants is made matters to me. Especially if my hard earned pennies are buying it!

Dana Buchman shift dress at Kohls

So, when buying anything, look at seams and seam allowance, hems and hem allowance, buttonholes, lining (always a good thing), fabric content (some natural fiber mixed in is a plus), and fit. On shoes, check straps, buckles, stitching, insole, and make sure any embellishments are well attached.

Jimmy Choo merch at H&M

Hope this helps with your future purchases. Where do you find your quality pieces at great prices? I’d love to hear about them! P.S. I am still playing with formatting, font, etc. so please excuse messups!

Businesswear 2009

2009-10-16T21:58:00.003-05:00

I have decided there is a big discrepancy between what is shown in the magazines as office appropriate clothing and what is really worn in the office. Unless you are in a high end finance, attorney, or some other elite office setting, I think the atmosphere is fairly casual. Magazines and prime time courtroom shows appeal to the sexy, feminine side of all of us with spike heels, pencil skirts, and patterned hosiery.

**This suit is by Theory and available at Bloomingdales.

But, I believe the workplace is filled with more frenzied moms whose priority is kids' lunches, get the dog outside to do his business, brush your teeth and out the door with no time to spare. I know there are the few that really do have it all together and do have time to concentrate on themselves in the mornings and that's what I'd love for everyone to have. I imagine you would feel much more empowered and capable of dealing with issues and co-workers if you felt powerful and capable.

f course, in my line of work, this plays directly to your image and style. And clothing is a huge part of that. So, how to accomplish looking your best at work? Let's just start with the basics (this will be a two-parter post; too long and I lose readers!) First, look at everything you wear to work and evaluate how it fits, what shape it is in, whether it is too casual or inappropriate. Then gather a needle and thread, lint roller, stain remover, shoe polish, and iron/steamer. Fix any loose threads, loose buttons, and falling hems, then iron or steam the garment. Work on tough stains and launder. If it doesn't come out, don't wear it. Remove pet hair and dust creases from hangers. The shoe polish will work wonders on scuffs and lengthen the life of the shoe. Don't forget the back and the heel.

Then use a critical eye and look at the way a piece fits. Are the pants sagging in the rear or pulling too tight; do blouses pull too tight across the bust; are pant hems dragging the floor; do your skirts or pants pull too tight across your stomach; do your blouses or tops rise to show your middle? All of these issues require fixing or ditching. Tomorrow, I'll discuss pieces to build a wardrobe with. But be prepared, it may require getting rid of some old favorites.

p.s. My blog is undergoing some changes, so please be patient with "construction messes!"

Deals, Steals, and Bargains!

2009-10-08T22:21:00.004-05:00

I think it's time we talked bargains. There are quite a few to be had if you know where to look. How about Jil Sander pants for like, $14.99? Deals like this are at one of my favorite stores, UAL. I've told ya'll about this place before. I saw this particular "steal" about 2 weeks ago. Now, Jil Sander at that price isn't the norm there but it's not far off. Lanvin, Prada, Oscar, Velvet, and many others are majorly discounted, 75 to 80% off! Then, there are the unknown European designer pieces from $9.99 and up. Some are sample pieces so be sure and try on. They also carry shoes, evening wear, some vintage furs, and great jewelry. One of my favorites though are the jeans at $9.99 and they fit like a glove! And the girls there are knowledgeable and helpful. I love that place. Another great place to check out is the cute little boutique by the Brentwood Target. Blush. They have some really cute pieces at extremely reasonable prices. The inventory is fairly low and kept to a minimum. They carry a range of somewhat edgy pieces mixed with more feminine things. There is a wall of shoes and limited jewelry. One of my favorite things there are the camis in a wide range of colors. Also look at the cute jackets and coats. They get shipments regularly so the merchandise changes frequently. The next place is an old standby but with a new designer on board, the looks are changing. Ann Taylor and AT Loft. AT is getting a makeover with more feminine, hipper styles. Not so cookie cutter business looking. AT Loft is more soft, casual, and fun and is doing its' own version of a tee shirt with chiffon, ribbony detailing. There are 3 or 4 styles that are on sale now for $19.50 I think. These are great layering pieces. The one above is an expample. I hope this helps you hold on to some more of your money but yet get some cute things. If you need help at any one of these places or any other area of your wardrobe, give me a call. Thanks for reading!

These Boots Were Made For ?

2009-10-02T19:21:00.000-05:00

Frank Sinatra's daughter made that song popular. If you are too young to remember it, pull it up on the internet and listen. It'll get you in the mood to get one of fall's biggest "must haves". Boots. They are such fun to wear. How many kinds of footwear are there that can look so many different ways? A pump is a pump, a ballet flat, a flat, a slingback, a ....well, you get it. But a boot, it can be tall, ankle, over the knee, flat, high heel, mid heel, wedge, dressy, slouchy,cowboy, riding, rain, and on it goes. For some reason a boot makes you feel invincible. You can walk through puddles, ride a horse, strut into a room, or as the song goes, walk over someone ( not very nice but necessary sometimes, maybe?). I just bought 3 pair. One, a black ankle to wear with tights and skirts mainly but also will be great with pants and jeans. Another, black suede with a buckle at the top, about 3 inches below the knee. I will wear them dressy and casual. The third pair are dressy black which I had no intention of getting until I saw the price. $9.99! They were at Marti and Liz (call me if you don't know this place!) and had the slightest repair stiching on the top seam. They are AK leather! Can you believe it? Just an example of some deals to be had at that shoe store. Anyway, my boot collection has now grown to, well, we'll just say I could use a little more room. If you are just venturing into the boot world, (Cindy, there is therapy for foot claustrophobia I'm sure) I would start with a basic black boot. Do you like high heels? Then go for it and they'll work with skirts for work and jeans for casual. A pair of flat boots will inherently have a more laid back vibe but still be appropriate for pant and jeans alike. They'll also work with knee length skirts. If you are more adventurous, try a motorcycle look in black or brown. I love this look with skinny jeans tucked in. And of course, to fully feel like a Nashvillian, a cowboy boot is totally appropriate. If you have a bit (chunk actually) of money burning a hole in your fun fall purse, go for a pair of Frye's. They have taken the cowboy boot above and beyond. Not your traditional pointy toe but they now have a hipper western look. The boots shown are from Zappos and are Frye's and the black booties are Donald Pliner. Both to die for. Boots do not discriminate. They are friends to all ages, body types, skin coloring, and sizes. You can even find wide shafts (the leg part) for those with a wide calf, which I know can be a problem. So, no excuses not to participate in this fun, fall fashion classic. Yes, I am declaring the boot a classic, right up there with a trench coat and a LBD. Aren't you excited? Ready to find the right boot for you? Call me, I know just the pair for you. Talk to ya soon......

Do You Remember?

2009-09-24T21:28:00.000-05:00

There is a broadway play in the works or already done about remembering an article of clothing or a particular outfit in a woman's past and what it meant to her or what emotions the memory of it brings. I have 2 or 3 that come to mind immediately but I will tell you about one, the earliest. For my 9th birthday my mother made me (she made almost all my clothes until I was in 6th or 7th grade) a gray short jumpsuit. It had little yellow flowers all over it and was sleeveless. I think I wore a longsleeve yellow t-shirt under it. I wore it to my birthday party. There is a picture of me wearing it on my swingset in the backyard. I think of fall, my mother, and playing in my backyard when I remember it. Oddly enough, another memory is of jumpsuit, made of satin, not cotton print! I'd love to hear if you have similar memories. Most of mine that concern clothing are good!
On this post, I'd like to examine the picture I've attached of Natalie Portman. I love her outfit! There is nothing oustanding or spectacular but it is just so together, clean, and simple. Maybe it's my love of navy and white. I'd love to see what shoes she is wearing. Anyway, we'll start at the bottom. She is wearing jeans with a pretty good flare and a dark wash. Underneath the jacket is a Chole tunic. You could easily replace it with a longer tee that has a bit of flare or tunics are easy to find now off the rack. Try Gap or Old Navy. It doesn't have to be a designer top. The jacket and scarf make the look. The cut of the jacket is double breasted with a flared hem. It hits just at her waist and has 3/4 length flaredsleeves. I guess "flare" is the opperative word here! You may want less material or "flare" in your jacket and that's fine. Long sleeves would be fine too. The green scarf is a great shot of color. More options could be wine, magenta, or deep teal. Boots, peep-toe sandals, or maybe a suede pump would work with this outfit. Try gray, black, or brown. Just a word about the tunic. To keep the length appropriate to your heigth, the hem doesn't need to go farther than below your hipbone. If it dips in the front a bit longer that's probably ok. So, what do you think. Easy or hard to pull off? Cute or not? This look is good for a huge age range also. If you are fairly heavy, you will want a jacked with a little more structure.
I hope you enjoyed my venture into using pictures. I'll try and do it more often. My days are fast being booked. Call soon if you want some help this fall. Thanks......

Melinda

The Truth - Hurtful or Refreshing?

2009-09-18T21:57:00.002-05:00

I was telling a group of women the other day (thanks for having me Allstate) that women often fall into 2 groups; dressing too young for their body type or age, or dressing too old. The ones that dress too old and frumpy are always a joy to work with. It is great to see a smile come to their face when they are told, and then realize themselves, that they really will look good in a shorter skirt. Or the cute jeans they like will be perfect on them. I am not sure why or when women begin seeing themselves older or needing to dress more boring or covered up, but it frequently happens. I think sometimes an extreme sense of modesty or I am sure certain birthdays can make you feel that way. My feeling is, no matter how old you are or modest, you can be stylish and still be age appropriate with your clothing. You see them in the mall, the older women that never got the feeling or were told "it's time to were the ugly black shoes and stop fixing your hair." They wear attractive clothing that suits them, colors, jewelry, and take time with their hair and make-up. These are women of all shapes and sizes. Then there are the ones that by age 30 have already thrown in the towel. Unfortunately, these women probably have a negative view of their shape and decided early on that pants, jeans, cute shoes, skirts, or whatever! don't fit them. Did someone tell them this or were they just too critical themselves when looking in the mirror? Whatever the case, I love to help them find that style that brings their self-image up. The other end of the spectrum and one that has to be handled with some delicacy at times, are ladies that have trouble leaving the teen years behind or are very swayed by their daughter's clothing or magazines. They will focus on the size and wish they were what they used to be, when they need to focus on the fit. These ladies have confidence which is terrific, but they need to understand what their clothing choices are saying about them. When women do this, it says to me, "my best years are gone and I'm trying to reclaim them". They portray a sense that they can't grow and mature. It can be hurtful to be told that skirts are too tight and buttons popping open isn't attractive. Again though, if they can try on a wonderful sheath dress and pumps, or an appropriate fitting jean and cute top, it begins to sink in that looking attractive and age appropriate isn't just for 20 year -olds. Harsh make-up, the wrong hairstyle, and color will age a person instead of taking years off. I told the group the other day that dressing too young very often isn't the style of clothing, it is wearing it the wrong way or the wearing the wrong size. An example might be a nice halter top for a night out. Younger girls can get by wearing a tighter style and have on a really snug pair of jeans. A more mature women can still wear that style top, but tone down the bottoms. A beautiful pair of black pants or a dark wash trouser jean. These will have a higher waist and a full leg. It's not so hard. So, is it time to take an objective look at your clothing choices? Do you fall into one of these categories? We probably all do from time to time, the point is to realize it and try to do better. Thanks for reading and I hope you have a great weekend. As always, please call if I can be of any help! Thanks......

PICKY, PICKY, PICKY

2009-09-02T19:07:00.003-05:00

From 1st grade through almost all Sr. high school, I took the same homemade lunch to school everyday. Three peanut butter saltine crackers, two chocolate chip cookies, and probably some chips of some kind, I don't remember. I also would only eat one kind of peanut butter, Peter Pan. I had a glass of chocolate milk for breakfast, everyday. The words stubborn and picky come to mind. Unfortunately, that behavior has progressed to my sense of style as well. I have been looking for a new pair of black boots since late last winter. The right look, price, fit, heel height, etc. I am also on the look out for a new pair of regular, 5 pocket, blue jeans, since last winter. The right wash, rise, length, and fit. The words stubborn and picky come to mind, again. Is this unending search for the perfect item really necessary????? Of course not. So, recently, I have been taking my own good advice and not dismissing things at a first glance. Some restrictions will always apply; I am 5'9 so no skyscraper heels; I am 5'9 so unless it's an ankle length, the hem has to be long enough; and always price. But as far as look goes, I'm open to trying different washes, the details on denim and boots, and the height of boot shaft (the leg part). And fit, maybe a jean that looks a little tighter or a skinnier leg will work, maybe it won't, but I'm going to try. It's what I encourage my clients to do and many times with good outcomes. I'll let you know what I find.

September is here and surprisingly, some cool weather to go with it. Summer washed yellows and whites and ocean shades of blue and green give way to fall hues. Chocolate browns, the oranges and reds of maple leaves, and midnight blue to black are stocking the stores now. Are you ready? Here are some tips to refer to until autumn really hits. While we are still transitioning, use the above colors in cottons and light-weight wool or silk blends. As the days go on, wardrobe wise, your clothing choices should slowly start changing, in general, to fall shades and heavier pieces. Boots are good, some will say all year, but certainly now, with dresses and skirts for a cute, breezy fall look. If scarves have been stored for the summer heat, bring them out for cool rainy days and night time. Go with a darker nail polish to really make a statement, try deep purple or navy for a change. While summer is a time for shedding layers, opening up, and slowing down, it is inevitable that with autumn on the way, we start to close up and hurry up in several ways. Front doors will close and the firewood will come in, gardens will die down to wait for spring, and we begin to pull out the comfortable, warm clothes. Long evening walks will stop and leisurely trips to the mailbox or to walk the dog become sprints. I'm always a little sad when this begins but, like clockwork, I start to remember the joys of fall and events only experienced in the cold weather. And, on a more shallow note, if I'm going to a football game to see people I haven't seen in months, or years, then I'm going to look good while I'm there! When the invite to a bonfire at a friend's farm comes, I plan to have a great new pair of cords to wear. Take these last weeks of summer and start taking stock of fall pieces needed or desired and make a list. Then, call me and let's get to it! No, it's not all about clothes but they sure make the seasons changing more enjoyable. Thanks for reading....

GLITTER + GLAM = GAUDY?

2009-08-17T20:28:00.005-05:00

While doing my job of scanning all the fall fashion magazine issues (so difficult), I realized that the 80's revival is more prevalent than I realized. I knew that the neon, harem pants, and wider shoulder theme had been around for 2 or 3 seasons now, but some designers really focused on these looks during fashion week and the fall shows. I can embrace almost all styles, some more than others. I like the look of high-waisted pants with a narrow hem and ankle boots. It's sharp and edgy for the right body. I also like a piece clothing in neon pink with the right outfit. Marc Jacobs showed a lot of bright pink in his show. And glitter and sparkle I really enjoy, even in the day. But, what us regular folks have to remember is that models in fashion shows and mannequins in store windows are dressed to make a statement and sell clothes. And, while we want to look great and even stand-out at times, we are not on display or on a runway. My goal as a stylist is to take the best of any trend and see if it works on you while maintaining your style and anchoring the look in basic pieces. Some trends won't work at all and some we bypass all together. I don't think I'll ever love acid washed jeans again, and yes, they are back. The 80's fashion flashback is just that, a flashback and a trend. These looks come and go and shouldn't be confused with the classics that most of us try to fill our wardrobe with. So, take this trend with a grain of salt, meaning, include small bits and pieces in your wardobe but don't invest the big bucks in this look. It shouldn't hang around for too many more seasons. Do glitter and neon equal gaudy? No, not gaudy, but it does require some time and effort to pull it off, and then, make sure you don't go overboard. Enjoy these decade trends as they come along then fondly say goodbye! Always stay on the look-out for ways to buy and add well made, solid name classics to your wardrobe when you can. I hope you have a great week, and as always, call if you need me.

What's Your Style?

2009-08-04T10:24:00.004-05:00

I have tried to figure out how to post pictures from the Internet onto my blog. I haven't had any success. I want to post pictures of everyday women/girls in all sorts of cute looks. You know, the ones they come up with that look effortless and right. I think I might get brave enough to just start taking them on my own (with the person's permission of course) and posting them. I love the mags that show the stylish girls on the street. I find it so interesting to know what their profession is and where their clothes came from. Was it a designer or a consignment shop? I'm also the kind that notices the clothes in movie scenes, reads the little print that tells who the designer is and the price in a magazine layout, reads fabric labels, and mentally re-dresses people in the mall I(I could sit and people watch for quite a while!). I've said before even if I don't like it, I love someone that works a "look". Whether it's boho, classic, vintage, or glamorous, if it's done right, it looks good. I think I am a variety of styles on any given day. There are certain pieces I love that I'll always use like.... my cowboy boots, casual skirts, 1 or 2 pair of great jeans, fun tops, and a variety of nice cardigans. These choices kinda land me in a more casual group. It all depends on mood, the next day I might choose a pencil skirt and pumps. What style are you? Have you bought something thinking "it's not me"? More than likely, you won't wear it if you have. I do encourage my clients to branch out, but take baby steps. There is nothing worse than buying an item and having it sit in your closet reminding you of your mistake. My best advice is, stay with-in your comfort zone but on occasion, include a really great top, shoe, skirt, or accessory you may not normally wear. Make sure it works with an outfit you already own and you will be more likely to wear it. Figure out your style by taking inventory of your wardrobe and see what category most of the pieces fall into. You probably already know. Do you lean toward the artsy, bohemian look? Or, do you have a closet full of carpi's, cardigans, and button up tops? More than likely, you also stick to one or two stores. That's a big clue to your type too. Again, all of that sameness is fine but you run the risk of becoming staid and predictable. Try and be on top of things and know when to bring in another opinion and a fresh eye. It will help in keeping clothing current and in style. You don't need to overhaul your style, it is a reflection of your personality, just weed out what doesn't work anymore and add a few things that will accentuate and keep your wardrobe fresh. Style doesn't just encompass clothing, it can refer to many aspects of your life, but the way you dress is usually what others notice first. As always, call if you need me and enjoy these last, wonderful summer days....

Have you noticed?

2009-07-17T10:21:00.002-05:00

It's just awful. Fall is already creeping into retailers. I think (until around September) I am a true summer girl. Sandals, pink toes, shorts, sun, lightweight tops, warm nights. I love it. But, if you love clothes like me, by late August, certainly September, you will be lusting after the beautiful sweaters, cool boots, and will have to have a new pair of jeans! But, until that time, let's enjoy what we've got. Hot days and warm nights. If you are really into being in style, late this month you will want to start concentrating on bringing in the muted shades of fall. Mustard yellow, burnt orange, midnight and denim blues, deep reds, wines, and deep, dark greens. You can still pair these with whites or, go ahead and do a total fall palette but with breezy cottons and linens to keep it summer weight. Truly though, July is really time to embrace all the summer trends to their fullest. Shorts with heels, all white, red, white, and blue/nautical looks, sundresses, straw hats and bags, bright, colorful jewelry, layered tanks, and of course swimsuits. The great thing is, it's also a fantastic time to buy all of the above! Most stores have already taken good markdowns so decide what you need/want but didn't want to spend on and see if it is still available. Or, check online. Try boutiques that have to make the sale for pieces that no one else will be wearing. I haven't been to UAL lately but they are usually a good place to browse. As you are making the most of the rest of the summer, don't get lazy and think the slow pace means dumpy t-shirts and baggy shorts. Whether it's the park, grocery, movie, farmer's market (love it), or the Hill Center, if you are out among the public, make an effort. It's worth it and much more desirable to be noticed for your simple skirt, tank, and cool jewelry than your Titans (whom I love) t-shirt and crocs (also fine in the right place; must dwell on where that is). So, get out there, look cute, and don't burn! Call if you need me, thanks......

Dog Days Require White

2009-06-21T18:52:00.002-05:00

Those of you that I have worked with have probably picked up on the fact that I love white. Pairing it with color, with black, with khaki, with more white, I just love it and the looks you can create with it go on forever. So, with the "dog days" upon us, what is going to keep you the most cool other than white, or very light colored clothing. Or of course, a pool. I guess one of the first white basics to mention would be white jeans. I like these for night when the sun isn't blazing; you can wear some great heels and a halter top, or a tunic that comes past the rear-end for a different look. A more casual approach could be to add a cute eyelet or swiss dot top cut more full with some flats. Another basic white to check into is shorts. Length may be determined by age but if you are young enough with fairly shapely legs, go for short shorts and wear flats. If you choose to be daring, wear for a wedge with maybe a rope heel; tooooo cute. For this look, keep the top more modest and not extremely tight. If you wear a walking or "city" short, go with most any top, tees work for casual, and tops that show a little skin are fun. This length takes heels well also. White skirts are always a good plan, full and flirty are also cool and you just look like you are having fun. Double up 2 different colored tanks with a beachy chain and flipflops and you're good to go. A tight pencil skirt will work for nice dinners, brunches, and can go to a wedding if your top is colorful. These also look beautiful with summer jackets and cardigans and peep toes. White cropped pants or jeans with embellished tees and cute heels (think JCrew catalog) or a cotton sun top will take you to almost any place you need to go. And of course, the white shirt/blouse; for the summer, roll up the sleeves loosely and pair it with your black skirt and pumps for work or wear one with fitted long shorts(khaki would be very safari) and flats, again, roll the sleeves. However you choose to do it, wear something white. I think my all time favorite is navy and white. It's just so cool and summery, and very appropriate for July 4th! Enjoy the rest of your June, time flies when you are stylishly dressed! Call me....

Necessary Things

2009-05-29T22:38:00.003-05:00

It has been tooooo long!! Kids are home from college, 2 new kittens, gardening to be done, etc. My house is and has been a mess for about 3 weeks now. Kittens and kids newly home at the same time are not a good idea. But, it is a full house with basically happy sounds, so it's ok. And the kids are certainly necessary for me, the kittens just a bonus. Aren't they the most precious things ever? (so mad! I am typing the rest of this for the second time, who know where it went!!) Okay, so summer is almost upon us and the feeling is good! I love it, sun-kissed bare skin, pedicures, light layers of jewelry, scarves, and cardigans, not wool coats and sweaters. Another plus for many, laid back schedules and fun outdoor events. So, there are some warm season basics everyone needs to consider to round out the summer look. The first is a cute summer skirt. Whether it is a floral, solid, or print, make sure it hits right around your knee (too long and it looks prairie, to short and you look like a teenager), look for one with a little fullness, and inset pockets are a fun and handy addition. Keep the top slim with an interesting neckline or slight embellishment for fun. Another basic I recommend is a great cardigan. Several local stores are carrying them now, AT Loft, Gap, and J. Crew come to mind. A great cardigan can be the focal point of your outfit with all the cute details they have now. Look for ruffles, tissue trim and rosettes, pearl buttons, or pretty embroidering. Light-weight cotton, silk, or even cashmere are great choices for the summer. Wear them with everything; jeans, shorts, skirts, sundresses, everything! The next "must have", I have written about before. Metallics,and they are still very much in demand. You can go with shiny threads shot through the material or used for embroidery, get a pretty silvery belt for white jeans, or look for a cool bronze gladiator sandal. I love bronze, it goes with everything! And remember, you can mix metallics. One more thing I think you need is a fun bead necklace. It can be a long chain or chunky choker. Look for clear beads mixed with pearl look alikes or clear colors, or wooden beads and natural stones. Fun and hip!

Well, I had planned on writing about the dressy events you need that "go to" outfit for but I think I'll stop now since this is my second time to do this! I'll cover that next week. I hope your first week of June is wonderful and warm. Thanks and as always, call if I can help.

You Can Do Better Than That!

2009-05-06T19:03:00.010-05:00

Okay, I am tired of writing and having to qualify everything I say because of the economy. So for this post, pretend it's all good. Unless you lost your job, then I am truly sorry. But, since I can't know that, I am writing like we can all go shopping. Yea!!! I am going to cover a couple different topics this post. The first is overcoming your "can'ts, don'ts, won'ts". It never fails, I start a consultation with a client and began to hear, "well, I don't show my arms", or "I don't like to wear white", or "I can't wear pants". Many have lived for years thinking these negative thoughts and not including certain pieces of clothing in their wardrobe. The real problem is that they haven't taken the time or gone through the frustration of trying on again, and again, and again to find the proper fit or style for the area of concern. It almost always comes back to body issues. Yes, a gathered elastic band sleeve will make your upper arm look larger, and yes, pants have different rises and cuts. And of course, if the pant or top doesn't fit right, white may not be flattering. But, it is my firm belief that every body can be dressed in a flattering, stylish way. Even in white. Now, if it is personal taste, then I understand that. But I hate to see women and men, veering away from colors and styles because they are unsure of how to wear them. And let me end by saying, there are styles, cuts, and colors that will look better than others. But, until you take the time to try on, you may never get past that negative belief you've been carrying around with you. And, you can do better than that! The other topic I wanted to cover is what I have labeled the "3 blocks of colors". It is not a good thing! I am talking about an outfit comprised of, for instance, a navy blazer, a khaki pant, and a white shirt. Or, a denim skirt, a brown shirt, and a cream cardigan. What's wrong with that? It's BORING. As your are putting your outfits together, try to incorporate some layering with tanks or camis of a complementing color. Try layering a tank under a sheer top then top with a simple cardigan. Another option is to make sure you have some prints in your wardrobe. Tops, sweaters, and jackets in a cute print over or under a solid is an easy fix. Picture a cute silky floral top under your cream sweater with your denim skirt. Then add a pair of ballet flats or gladiator thong sandals and you've got a look! With that look you included some more visual interest with a print. Also, include accessories like a cool necklace of chunky beads, a long interesting chain, a scarf, or belt a long tee. These can become a focal point for an outfit. Using depth (layering), visual interest (embellishments like beading, prints, or ruffles), and an accessory as a point of interest will make you look put together and in style. One word of caution, don't do all three together. So, tomorrow when you look in the mirror if you see "3 blocks of color", go back to your closet because you can do better than that! As always, call me for help with any of these or other wardrobe malfunctions! Thanks........

This One's for the Guys

2009-04-15T13:58:00.002-05:00

After talking with a couple guy clients (few and far between!) I realized I had not done a post covering some general rules for them. So, if you are a guy that needs some style help or know one, read on....These tips will cover general fit. The "rules" on these are not terribly complicated. We'll start with jackets, excluding outerwear since it's almost May....jackets or blazers will usually almost fit most men. Vague huh? By that I mean that many times, a sleeve may need to be hemmed or the sides seams taken in a bit. Some dept. store employees can help you with this, look for a yellow or white tape measure around their neck, or ask if the store has a tailor. If you buy at say, TJ Maxx, you will need a tailor (they won't have one) to look at the fit. Shoulders shouldn't droop, sleeves should show about a 1/4 " of shirt sleeve, lapels should lay flat, no pulls or wrinkles across the shoulders and vents should not be pulled open, 1 vent for regular shaped/sized men, 2 for a fuller backside. Unless you will be layering a sweater regularly, stick to a slim cut that gently hugs, not restricts. This style will be fine with trousers or jeans, a looser blazer will always say casual. A midnight navy blazer or suit is always a good start and pay attention to details like fabric (no polyester!), stitching, lining, buttons etc. Single breasted is best and buy the best quality you can. Trousers/pants are next. Some of the same rules will always apply, pay attention to the details, they say quality. Your waist size is the measurement around your waist at the top of your hipbone, but let a tailor measure you and then remember it! The rise is the length of the fly, too long and your pants are up to high, too short and you have low riders. Not good. Inseam is length from crotch to cuff, again, let someone else measure it and remember it. Pants should fit snug but not tight at the waist right above your hipbone. Length should hit the top of your shoe with some crease (called the break), and about 1/2" to 1" up your shoe heel from the floor. We don't want to see your socks much when you walk. And a word about pleats, generally no. Unless you really need it in the stomach area or a tailor tells you the pants will drape better, no. You don't need too much fabric and they should fit like a jacket, skim the body. Right now, summer weight wool or a blend, cotton or a blend, is what you should be wearing. Jeans will have to wait for another post! Shirts are last. So much to decide, color, print, button-down, atheletic fit, etc. The same fit rule applies here also, the shirt should skim your body but not pull when seated or at the buttons, sleeves should fall in the crook between the base of your thumb and your wrist, when buttoned, 2 fingers should fit between your neck and the collar, tail needs to be long enough not to come untucked when seated (the untucked look is another post also!), big shoulders may need 2 pleats in the back, and on everyone the seams need to lay on the muscles right behind your shoulder (deltoids I'm told).Okay, that's alot of info to consider. Take it in and if you do go shopping, try and buy the best quality you can. As they say, you can spot a cheap suit a mile away! If you need help I am great at finding deals but keep in mind you will probably need to make friends with a tailor! See ya next time.... ps..spell check was out so please forgive mistakes!

Reality, Body Image, Metallics, and Michelle

2009-04-02T07:41:00.010-06:00

I had minor back surgery a couple weeks ago and would usually have spent my recovery time reading and watching news channels ( I am a news/political junkie). Unfortunately, I got so down watching all the economy junk, I turned to reality t.v. What a circus some of that stuff is! But, while watching, and I don't even remember all the ones I watched, I realized so many of the women were so focused on the perceived negatives about their bodies. So, many times they over emphasized other parts, their make-up, hair, over tanning etc. I also read an article in Glamour maybe? about how we pay so much attention to every bump and flaw. It's hard not to try and hide what we don't like but I believe all shapes and sizes can be dressed and styled to be attractive. For instance, there are women that are not a size 6 or physically beautiful, but when make-up, hair, and clothing that fits is done tastefully, current, and age appropriate, these women can turn heads. I wish I could think of an example. All this to say, take the time and effort to look like the best you. Sure, work out, get pedicures if you want, highlight your hair if needed, and dress stylishly, but not to an extreme and it needs to be what works for your body, age, life, not someone on a magazine cover or tv screen. Maybe an example could be former first lady Laura Bush. She certainly is not supermodel material but on I believe their 2nd inaugural ball, she wore a white gown, 2 piece I think, and looked beautiful. She was the example of beauty and grace. Through out their term the way she carried herself and her demure style fit her perfectly. Which brings me to our present first lady. I tried to resist the hoopla about her and take more time deciding but I don't need more time. What fun to have such a fashion forward first lady! She looks spectacular. Note, not a size 6 but so toned, no really high heels, key accessories, make her really stand out. Check-out mrs.o.org for more pictures of her. Well, I will end on some fashion do's for the season and summer. Anything metallic. Purses, shoes, tops, scarves. Get something that shines! Florals. Even shoes have flowers on them. Try a billowy top or an A-line skirt. Maybe a cute pair of JCrew shorts. The last do is a great blazer or jacket. Unstructured or fitted, 3/4 or long sleeve, whatever will do. They pull an outfit together wonderfully and if you buy right, it can take you into fall easily. Oops, not the last, the last do is a "look at me" shoe. Get a metallic gladiator sandal or a red pump or a rocker chic wooden platform or a beautiful summer sandal. Go to Payless if you need to but get one! Ok, that's it for now. As always, call if I can be of any help. Thanks........

Tailor Made

2009-03-08T21:14:00.003-06:00

I drive an old Ford Expedition. I used to call it a car. It was top of the line, all the bells and whistles. Now I call it my truck. I am naming it Martha right now. After all the wear and tear over the years, she really can't claim to look or drive like a car. I have hauled dogs, cats, (alive and dead), chickens, turtles, ( I have 2 boys), wreaths, Christmas trees, luggage, pine straw, baseball, football, track, and hockey gear, bridles, saddles, groceries, wet children and towels, and babies in car seats and all that entails. I have changed diapers in it, eaten in it, gotten dressed, and slept in it. The back window has been broken out, the windshield broken by a water balloon (fyi, it's just like a rock hitting the car), paint sprayed on it, the sunroof broken, crayons melted in it, the alternator replaced mid 14 hour trip (providential Southern help on a Saturday afternoon, rural Alabama), and the bumper dented. Right now, it (Martha) is covered in dust from road construction in front of my house, plus I have a gravel drive, and live on a mini farm and all the mess that comes with that. I have vacuumed/cleaned out sand, rocks, manure, dirt, leaves, and food. Thankfully, Martha has never been wrecked. But like I said, she's old and I can't buy a newer one until I can pay most all in cash (husbands' rules). And the one I want isn't cheap, Volvo, Lexus, or Land Rover SUV. So, I am stuck washing, vacuuming, dusting, and changing tires and oil as needed. All this personal information to tell you that in this economy, mending and tailoring to make a nice piece of clothing serve you longer is a smart choice to make if needed. A classic designer blazer or even just a very nice one can be updated easily and fairly reasonably by a professional tailor. A tailor is a person that can go into the seam or under linings, or take an article of clothing apart and "tailor" it to fit you. Even change the design to modernize the style. They do much more than hem. They can take a pant and reduce the fullness if needed, adjust the waistband, or take out pockets. I have a tailor I use that is reasonable and timely. She works out of her home. I don't have her permission to put her name out on the web but if you call or email, I can give you her name and number. Please tell her you got her name from me. Maybe I'll get a reduced price on my clothes! Anyway, these days, most people are trying to save a few pennies. So, if you want your old Brooks Brothers classic white shirt to be more fitted and look more 2009, or if you've gained a couple pounds and need the waistband let out of your favorite pants and new isn't in the picture, get them tailored. It'll help her business and your pocket. Waiting for something isn't too hard, trust me. But, if you can afford new, then go and buy. And call me, I can save you time and money (it's true). The retailers could use you and so could I! Don't let the economy get you down, surely we've about hit bottom and then up is the only way to go! Have a great week and I hope to hear from you soon, Martha and I would love to pay you a visit.

Do you need to know what these words mean???

2009-02-18T21:31:00.005-06:00

What words you ask? These: dhoti, ombre, peplum, or cage coat/shoes. Basically, no, you don't need to know what they mean. Except for peplum, which is actually a clothing construction term that has been around forever, the others you probably won't ever hear in casual conversation. Dhoti describes an Indian pant that resembles the harem pant of the 80's and is making a timid comeback. Unless you work in the fashion industry and are fairly modelesque, I wouldn't try them. They are being shown in fashion magazines and are really just confusing the general public that have begun to embrace wearing a slightly flared leg, not tapered! Ombre is a fabric with graduated shades of a color. It can resemble a high class tie~dye print. Generally you will see it made into skirts and dresses. I included peplum because some spring styles are showing it on jackets and tops. A peplum is a hem constructed of a gathered or flared piece of material below a seam. A short, fitted peplum jacket is a cute look this season. The word cage is being used to describe material that looks like just that, a cage. I've seen a leather jacket, shoe, and a skirt, all leather with a cage look. Obviously, the jacket and skirt would require something underneath! The shoes were a platform sandal and the cage look went up the calf about midway. Interesting. So, maybe 2 or 3 out of the 4 may catch some fashionista's fancy. But, the most important tip I'd like to convey is about pant length and hem width. The cut that is flattering to most women, and you've heard it a thousand times, is a slight flare or, if you are larger, a cut that hangs from the top of the thigh down. Generally your pants should be no shorter than 1/2 way up your shoe heel. Oh, just call me and I'll show you! Hope you have a great rest of the week.

"I thought a wardrobe was what Lucy went through to get to Narnia"

2009-02-09T20:46:00.003-06:00

Isn't that a great line! Thanks to Suzanne for that hilarious quote. Now she knows it is so much more and she looks great. Now onto what to wear when it is February and 70 degrees! On days like today, it is sooooo easy to start pulling out the tanks and sandals. But, in reality, we will have more days in the 30's and probably sleet or snow. So, lets talk about what you can do until spring is really here. First of all, start with bringing in lighter spring colors in your tops and scarves. For instance, in the fall, you might have worn pumpkin colors and purples to go with a chocolate brown tweed skirt/suit/pant. Now, try a pretty pink blouse and winter white knit sweater vest or a light blue cardigan with a crisp white shirt underneath. Or instead of black or wine colored tops with a pair of black pants, try light grey and yellow. Get a fun, bright spring trench coat or a couple cardigans or boyfriend sweaters in peachs and pinks. Secondly, use these colors for accessories too like scarves and jewelry. Your color tones should go from fall and winter palettes to spring shades. Another way to start spring early is to get a great fitting pair of white jeans. Make sure they are not a lightweight cotton but are a heavier weight denim. They will take you a long way. If they are skinny, roll them up and wear with a bright flat or tuck them into a good black boot with a black turtleneck. Or get a straight cut and wear them with a pretty tan driving moc (think Gwennyth Paltrow in the Tods ads) and khaki jacket. So many options! Hopefully this answers some questions about transitional dressing. We can't ditch the coats and boots yet but soon! Next time I'll be talking about 2009 spring trends, can you say "dhoti" pants?? Please call if I can help at any time! ( Blogger was sick tonight so if there are font changes or misspells, sorry)

Work Through It!

2009-01-31T14:17:00.003-06:00

In the past several weeks, I have had a number of clients with very specific fit issues. They were discouraged by the trouble they had finding clothing that looked good and fit their body well. And every time I work with someone that is short-waisted or not the size they would like or is 6 feet tall or whatever! I realize how much these issues factor into a person's self-confidence. We naturally focus on our flaws when we look in the mirror and our eyes zero in on the perceived problem area. So, if you are one of the many people that go into a store, look around, feel overwhelmed, try on one thing, in one size, and leave believing that you can't wear cute stuff, I am writing to you! Don't be afraid of the word tailor. Don't see extra dollar signs and don't think inconvenient. When you are buying a garment at many times, 30% to 50% off retail price, you can spend ten dollars to turn up a hem or take in a waistband. First of all, make sure you try and buy well-made pieces. Look for some percentage of a natural fiber, lining is a plus, detailing is a plus, look for big hems. You can come across decently constructed clothing even at discount stores. Try the designer names at Target and Kohls. A dry cleaner can let out or turn up a hem but for anything much more detailed I would recommend a tailor. Everyone needs business now so call some different places and price compare. I've got a name I can give you also. A tailor is going to be your best bet for dealing with clothes that just don't seem to work for you. Another bit of advice is shop within your size range and go up in size if needed. There is hardly a true 8 or 10 anymore. Sizes within brands and stores fluctuate greatly. I even tell my clients if something is a just a tad small or big, try on one more of the exact same size. Sometimes you will get that small bit of change to make the fit just right. If you are 5'4 and under you are technically petite but that doesn't mean some sizes in the regular department won't work also. Finding the right fit can take time and effort. Shoes can be a problem area also. Some of my clients don't wear heels or have to have a slingback for instance. The perfect shoe may have a heel that is too high for comfort. A cobbler (shoe doctor) can work wonders. They can stretch shoes and cut down heels along with fixing buckles, zippers, etc. Even shoe departments in the store can work on some fit issues. So ask before deciding the perfect shoe isn't so perfect. So the moral of this blog is, you can wear the cute stuff, your body doesn't present so much of a problem that we can't find modern, hip, fun looks that fit you well. So as always, call me and we'll work through it together!

Loose Ends

2009-01-19T20:50:00.002-06:00

Happy Inauguration Day!! Take a moment to appreciate history in the making with another Presidential election. I have lately been reading biographies (Daniel Boone, Abigail and John Adams) and the freedom to have our own country and President was won by men who lived their lives for this sole purpose. So, say a prayer, do a little dance, honk your horn, or whatever to salute our forefathers and Presidents past and present, whether you agree with them or not! History lesson over. So what fashion problems have been bugging you lately? Do the jeans not look right or you don't know how to wear the dreaded "skinny" jean? What about flats when it's 20 degrees, do you really not wear socks? What is the "it" item to have right now? On the jeans, I'd have to see how you are wearing them to answer. As for the flats, yup, you're gonna be cold, or wear boots. There is not really an "it" item I don't think. Sweater dresses are big, scarves are big, boots are big, and I could go on. Just remember when buying a piece of clothing, look at the fit, not at the number or letter that tells the size. I would like to say that while evaluating your clothing, give your make-up and hair a fresh look also. I am not an expert in those areas but I do know it is easy not to be objective, so visit a make-up counter for new ideas and ask for suggestions at your next haircut. Last week, I visited what I had declared several months ago as "my new favorite store", and unfortunately the downturn in the economy seems to have hit it also. While there were still deals, the store seemed to be lacking its' "wow" factor this time. Not as much merchandise and kinda picked over. On the cool side, they were carrying some vintage furs and hats. This week I will be doing some boutique browsing so I will report back soon. Now is the time to be enjoying all your heavy sweaters, scarves, cute coats and jackets, and cords because toward the end of February we will start having some of those spectacular glimpses of spring with mild temps and gorgeous sunshine. You will want to start breaking out the flipflops and linen pants but refrain for awhile. Transition months can be difficult but we'll discuss that later. For now, put another log on and appreciate all the beautiful textures and wovens of winter wear. Lastly, have you noticed I like to use quotation marks, I like the "pow" they give to a word. But English majors, don't be alarmed, I know I overuse them, misuse commas and apostrophes, and have run-on sentences. At least I recognize my mistakes! But, I do use spellcheck, good for me. As always, call if I can help with your wardrobe questions. See ya later!

No Resolutions!

2009-01-02T18:03:00.004-06:00

This is Mason Elizabeth Parker, the cutest thing since my babies! She is my great niece and we want to thank God for a safe delivery for mom and Mason. Her great-grandmother is holding her!! Now, on to fashion!

I am an anti-resolutionist ( I think I made that word up). I think for many people they are a set up for failure. I like challenges and dares better. Such as "I bet you can't go without chocolate for 3 days" or "I dare you to walk a mile over 4 days". You know, small doable things but with a bit of, can you or can't you, thrown in for good measure. So, with that quirky train of thought, what about a fashion challenge. We'll call it Style Dare 2009. Every week try one thing, place, action, etc. new. Like, a color you don't usually wear, or heels instead of flats, or tights instead of hose, or throw out an item you haven't worn in a year, or shop at a different store than usual, or don't be afraid to show your legs, or have a make up expert give you some tips, or change an outfit from flashy to classy. That list right there gives you around 7 or 8 ideas. Look at a fashion magazine to see how some things are supposed to be worn to give you some guidance and confidence. January is normally a time for self-reflection and we shouldn't disregard our appearance during our time of assessing the things we need to change. Obviously, the way you look effects you and how people react to and perceive you. So, on January 4th, decide what the challenge will be and DO IT! That's my motivational talk for now. As for style news, I don't have much to comment on at the moment. Just a few tips; dresses are huge and will be all year; also, blazers with are being worn with tons of things, and a last thing to consider is accessories. Accessories can make or break an outfit and for the financially strapped, can update your look quickly and economically. If you would like me to work with you it would be a pleasure so please email or call, I'll help you spend that Christmas cash or gift cards (which by the way should be spent quickly lest the store goes out of business!). That's all for now, I hope your holidays were filled with love, family, and friends. Happy New Year!!

Me and Clinton

2008-12-03T10:02:00.003-06:00

Clinton, "That's a cute outfit." Me, "Thanks, I'm a stylist here in Nashville so coming from you that's quite a compliment." Clinton, "That's why you look like you know what your doing!" That was my oh so brief conversation with Clinton Kelly from What Not To Wear. He gave a short talk on style and fit and was the commentator for a Petite fashion show at Macy's. He's a funny guy and his new book Freakin' Fabulous is funny and informative. Watch out for the sexual innuendos and drinking jokes though. It also goes over etiquette and manners which I thought were pretty helpful. So, you heard it here, Clinton thinks I know what I'm doing. What other reference do you need?! Anyway, it may be a good Christmas gift for a fashion junkie in your home! I have just a few holiday tips to pass on this week. With all the red and green decorations at this time of year, why not stand out and go with totally different colors? Give the snowman sweater to your mother, or better yet, make a pillowout of it, but don't wear it. Last night to an event I wore silver/gray shaded jeans and a cream colored ruffle sleeveless top. The colors worked nicely together and to add a bit of cuteness I bought gray satin ribbon, 1 3/4" wide and pulled it through the belt loops and tied it in a bow. Pretty cute. Also, black heels even though it was freezing! It wasn't so bad and they did make a statement. Remember this, sometimes you have to suffer to be cute! Don't take it to an extreme but for a nice Christmas dinner, leave the Uggs and wool sweater at home. I'd rather be over than under dressed anytime. Don't save your pretty sequined and beaded tops for a cocktail party, use them with jeans or cute chinos (think J Crew) and heels. The sparkle of great jewelry or sequins and beads on your top will be partyish enough to forgo red and green. If you still want Christmas colors, use them as an accent (scarf, shoes, jewelry etc.). Another option is to wear a cute black party skirt, a poppy or tangerine colored tank with a cardigan of a similar shade and flats. Too cute!! I'll post more holiday thoughts later. Also, please forgive the odd placement of these photos, I haven't gotten layout down yet! The brunette in the top picture is my sister. Hey Trese! See you soon and call for any holiday diliemas!

Mix It, Break It, Don't Match It!

2008-11-10T11:40:00.003-06:00

Today I am rambling about a few styling questions that I know some struggle with. A wonderful thing that is happening with choosing outfits lately is to mix fabrics, textures, patterns, colors, etc. Although even for the most confident fashion follower, mixing plaids for instance, is a perplexing task, there are some ways to simplify; make sure color palettes are the same, do a very large window pane plaid with a very small micro-check, or use a smaller accessory like a scarf, belt, or even a shoe to pair with the dominant plaid on top. It can be tricky but can be done. The easier and more popular mixing I've seen in the past several months is mixing color combos. Almost anything goes. Red/pink, navy/black, brown/purple, orange/maroon, and lots of others. It looks hip, modern, and oh so stylish! Also, that great black suit you have and save for important meetings is not being used to it's full potential if you don't mx the blazer with a nice pair of jeans and a sharp blouse out to dinner. Or wear a beautiful lightweight short sleeve blouse with a wool pencil skirt in a herringbone pattern. Don't be shy, mix it up. And next, there are a few fashion rules you need to start breaking. One is, wear white! All year! All shades! Just a little common sense applies here, keep the weight of the fabric suitable to the season. A white seersucker jacket needs to be saved for summer and your wool white pants for winter. Cashmere in white is a gorgeous fabric to use almost all year and much lighter weight versions are everywhere. A second rule to tear into is a bit of shine for the day. Don't save your knit top with an embellished neckline or cute jacket with a gold shimmer for nighttime. Your shoes may even have some sparkle and still be fine for before five. Wear them with toned down pieces and you will be just fine. A third rule that is harder for some is to lose your overwhelming mu mus that hide your womanly shape. Contrary to what you believe, all that extra fabric does more than hide a bulge or two, it visually adds pounds. Buy clothes that fit properly and fabrics that skim the body. And finally, although a black top and bottom or a nice gray sweater, pants, and shoes can make an impressive statement, matching everything can become quite dated. In fact a big "don't" is matching shoes, belts, handbag, jewelry, etc. Matching your animal print purse, to your shoes, to your skirt and so on is just plain wrong! So, sometimes, when you're in the mood, mix it, break it, but don't be matchy matchy! As always, call me for any fashion or style needs. Have a great week!

Too Snooty? Too Expensive? Which One?

2008-10-30T11:28:00.006-06:00

Let me just say from the start, if you looking for a stylist, of course I should be your choice! Now that that's out of the way, lets answer some of the title's questions and be a bit more objective. Are you being a snob by using a stylist? No. If you recognize that you look dated, you hate to shop, you think nothing fits, don't keep up with styles, or don't have time, you are being smart by asking for help. The same way a person would use an interior designer or a professional photographer. If it is embarrassing to you, the process can be and should be done very discreetly. Secondly, is it too expensive? Well, that depends. If you are barely making your house payments, have lots of debt, and your utilities have been turned off then, buy a fashion magazine, go to Target and copy the looks! If you are doing better than that then you could probably afford an hour or two consultation/ shopping with some freelance stylists. Ask questions, how can I maximize my dollar? Tell the consultant, "I want to shop at Target or Gap sale items, not BCBG or Jamies". Ask if you can dictate the time spent, time = money. A well known, industry stylist will charge more than others. Thirdly, which stylist do you choose? Talk to two or three. You will probably connect better with one. Can they tell you where to go to find the look you are trying to achieve or better yet, will they be honest and tell you if it isn't right for you? Do they even know what and where BCBG or Jamies is and can they find similar looks at discount prices if that is your goal? If stores such as Jaimies and Posh are where you like to shop, does your consultant feel comfortable at those retailers? Does the stylist have the ability to determine what looks best on your body type? Can you find some information on their background, experience, degrees, and do they have references? A great ad and fun personality are certainly worth noticing but go a little farther to be sure. Lastly, try and make sure you will enjoy the process and end up happy with the experience.

The Process

2008-10-19T20:14:00.002-05:00

I realized several days ago I had never blogged about the actual details of my services so, here are the details..... When a client contacts me it usually involves 2 meetings, the first is a consultation consisting of a brief questionnaire about shopping habits, sizes, likes/dislikes, and needs/goals. Also, at that time we can do a closet edit. This involves literally going through a client's closet and evaluating whether something fits correctly, is outdated, too worn, etc. Most clients enjoy a second opinion and a fresh look at their wardrobe but not all choose to do this. We end this meeting with a list of wants and needs for me to look for, a budget, and a day for me and the client to shop together. After a date is decided upon, I will go the day before to 2 or 3 stores that I determine will best accommodate the needs discussed and pull items and put them on hold. The next day, the client and I have our second meeting which is trying on the items I've put on hold. Of course, all of this can be tweaked some to fit each individual person. For instance, if there is a particular boutique that is a favorite, I would certainly try and find something in there. Or if we are short on time, my shopping day alone and the try-on day could possibly be done the same day. Shopping for someone without a consultation is pretty tricky and I don't recommend it. The plan for 2009 is to have a package deal including consultation and a shopping trip together the same day. Some people like getting it all done and some get burned out doing it all at one time. Of course, previous clients have the good fortune of having the consultation already done, we just address that season or event. I hope this information helps clear up any questions anyone may have. I work hard to provide an experience that favors each client, is conscious of how their money is spent, and in the end is enjoyable and makes the client look their best. If you can use any of these services, I'd like to help. Thanks for reading....

Dressed up at the Parthenon

2008-09-23T23:20:00.002-05:00

This picture goes with the blog below. The middle sister mentioned is the brunette in black, mom is next, older sister, me, and my cute, pregnant niece. I believe I could have stood a tad bit more ladylike! We had a fun time but it was so hot we were all wilted by the time we left!

Stylish Behavior and Sisterly Sarcasm

2008-09-23T10:22:00.004-05:00

The other night I had the opportunity to attend a fundraiser at the Parthenon for the Rape and Sexual Abuse Center. You know, heels, hair, fancy people, dinner and dancing, etc. the whole shebang. I was with my 2 sisters, my mom, and my niece. On the way home my middle sister commented on how polite I had been. Now, let me explain here, we are jokingly sarcastic with a touch of truth with each other, all done in fun and love of course (I am winking)! I responded saying it was because I was dressed up. Yes, I know, that means I agreed with her. It is hard to be silly and crazy acting when you are concentrating on walking up the HUGE Parthenon steps in 3 inch heels. So, the question is, does the way we dress affect the way we behave. You know proponents for school uniforms certainly think so. I think I agree. Jeans and flats will definitely make most people feel more comfortable, more at ease, than heels and a cocktail dress. Think of the What Not to Wear candidates, they certainly carry themselves with more confidence and a realization that others are noticing them than they do on their secret tape. So, I think the moral of my blog is this, when you take care with the way you dress, not only others notice you but you will take more pride in yourself. It's a long shot but, maybe stylish dressing will lead to a kinder, gentler world! What a hoot! Let's go dress up Iran!!! Talk to you soon and call me for all your wardrobe needs and wishes! Have a great day.....

Fun Job

2008-09-10T22:33:00.003-05:00

I'm with the band! On the job as stylist for the band On Tracy Lane. My niece is the cutie in white on the end (female!) although the one on the other end is a cutie too! Great band, great time. Thanks guys.

A Great Store

2008-09-06T11:14:00.001-05:00

I am going to tell you about my new favorite store. It has been here maybe close to a year but I just went this summer. It is UAL, United Apparel Liquidators (I think that's the full name). It is on West End Blvd. where years ago Vandyland used to be. It is south of Centennial Park and Scarlett Begonia, another cool store. Anyway, look up or google the correct address, the clothes are what's important! In a warehouse type, large room, they have racks and racks of clothing you will not find anywhere else. They carry stock overruns, samples, last season, and store sell offs. The front of the store has several round racks of couture pieces. If you've never seen a piece from Prada, D&G, Lanvin, Vera Wang and others then this is wear to find them, at around 70% off, sometimes more. A $600.00 dollar Prada blouse is now much more reasonable at $100-$150 dollars. If that is still too much, keep going back to the racks with designers you haven't heard of, for anywhere from $9.99 to $49.99. What a deal! And no one else will have it on! These pieces will also generally be well made and sewn from good fabric. There are gowns, shoes, bags, belts, and a small section for men. Jeans for $19.99. I love this place! I got a silk skirt for $9.99, how great is that? Anyway, check it out, you'll be glad you did. But if you just don't want to, call me and I'll go for you!!! Thanks for reading.....

Ready to get into Fall!

2008-08-14T20:33:00.002-05:00

It's been a whole month since I've expressed my all important views on style and fashion.........just kidding! It has been a whole month though. During that time I've worked with several clients including the band On Tracy Lane. We had a great time at the photo shoot getting to know the guys and hopefully I'll have pictures to put up soon. But, onto fashion musings. I'd like to address this message to the women in the 40+ range. As with everyone, your body type needs to be honestly and objectively evaluated. The added bump in the road for those over 40 is "can I wear this at my age?" What we want are to be modern, stylish, and to look good! It is possible with some time, investigating, and the will to change if needed. Some advice I would offer is to get a fresh opinion of your hairstyle. If your stylist doesn't suggest changes and options, see someone else for a change. You don't have to stay with her, just see if you like the cut she gives you and your stylist can follow what she did. I know it's not always that easy, but sometimes it is! After that, spend some time in stores and departments where you don't normally shop. Try some things on that you do not consider "you". If you've got great legs, wear your hem a 2 or 3 inches above the knee, just not 5 or 6! Of course, lose the "mom" jeans. Try a designer pair like Joe's Jeans or a different style, maybe high rise or skinny. Get a pair of sharp boots or maybe a great leather jacket with some motorcycle details. Don't save your dressy tops and sweaters for dressy events, wear them to dinner or a movie. Find looks you admire in fashion magazines and copy them. Remember, 4o is a number, not a signal to lose your sense of self. It all begins with how you feel about your appearance. See ya later!

Seasons

2008-07-11T09:43:00.002-05:00

Well, I have been gone awhile again, out of town with my family. And when I returned, it was beginning to happen. The subtle change in clothing collections to darker colors. The start of the fall pieces coming into stores. The August magazine layouts will be all about autumn. Holidays have in recent years been introduced in stores earlier and earlier, but fashion has always been several weeks to months ahead of the season. That is because way ahead of the actual season, fabrics have to be chosen, patterns and styles decided upon, orders taken at market, and garments produced and delivered to retailers. Buyers place orders 5 to 6 months before delivery, that means fall orders were placed around April. Fashion also has more than four seasons; winter, cruise, spring, summer and fall. There may be one in between summer and fall (I can't remember) and there is a always a holiday collection. Cruise is mid-January through February. That's why most department stores will have a small area for bathing suits and nautical type pieces after the New Year. These "rules" have been in place for forever. So, while we're still wearing our white eyelet and sandals, somewhere designers are drawing and coming up with what we'll be buying next spring. It's a crazy world in fashion, but I love it! Enjoy the summer sales!

Little Things Matter

2008-06-25T22:31:00.002-05:00

As with your children, a party, friends, decorating your home, etc., in fashion, little things make a difference. The other morning I was putting on a sheer top with a cami under it and the cami had a split in the side seam. I knew it was there but had continued to wear it under tops that hid the tear. When I looked in the mirror, I realized it was showing, looked bad, and needed to be fixed or taken off. I ran upstairs to my sewing machine and grabbed a needle and thread, turned the cami up to my waist and stitched it up. It looked 100% better and I didn't have to change. The way some might have to dash out and get flowers for the table, do that special little bedtime routine for your 4 yr. old, or have the perfect wine for dinner, you also need to put that extra touch into your clothing. Actually, stitching a tear isn't a special touch, just following good style rules: no tears, stains, or ill-fitting clothing. But, it was a little thing and it did matter. If your shoes are scuffed, polish them, if your under things are all stretched out, get some that aren't, if your blouse is stained, launder it. Most fixes are easy and cheap and definitely worth it. Remember, the little things matter, in all aspect of our lives. Sorry I've been gone awhile, I won't be away so long next time. So,til then, have fun, be kind, and dress well!

What Style Are You?

2008-06-07T10:07:00.005-05:00

I met with a magazine employee the other day and we were discussing the many facets of women. The topic turned to style and helping women discover what they felt and looked best wearing. I told her, as I realized a long while ago, I don't have a particular style. I may be a little bold in my outfits at times but I love different looks. I also appreciate someone creative enough to have a "look" and cause me to take a second look even if I don't like it. A classic Audrey Hepburn look will always be in, right for an event, and ageless. The RL Polo preppy style which J. Crew, Gap and others emulate well, is another wonderful timeless clothing choice. A not so timeless look, but very in now are 70's inspired or boho pieces. If you have an outdoor event a maxi would be perfect to wear now. Wide leg jeans come under the 70's category too. Sometimes I like to put on a kind of rock 'n roll outfit with skinny jeans, gladiator heels and a cool top. I love color and Pucci inspired prints, ribbed tanks with walking shorts and flats, 50's dresses with gathered skirts and pumps (think Sarah Jessica Parker), and the list goes on. Many of my friends do have their style and colors they stick to and I don't think they should change too much, it's who they are, but I like to think that others of us are multi-layered in our dress and personality. We like to mix it up a bit, keep people wondering, change with our mood, and have a few surprises up our sleeve. Doesn't that make our lives a little more interesting? And what better way to portray those differences than with our clothing?! Have fun out there! Remember, what others see is their first impression of you. Always,

Fit, Fit, Fit, Fit, Fit.....

2008-05-29T17:10:00.004-05:00

No don't throw one, just make sure everything fits and lays appropriately. Sometimes in the dressing room in the midst of trying to find that great outfit, you will rationalize that when it's ironed it will lay right, or at home you can pin that gap, or if you wear a cami or the right underwear it really does fit. Sometimes all that is true, often it is not. If you are tugging or having to suck in your stomach in the dressing room, chances are it does not fit. Learn to let disappointment over one outfit motivate you to find the better one somewhere else. Rarely does a garment look on the average person the way it does on a mannequin or in a magazine. But the fun challenge is to take the "look" and translate it to your body type. Usually some part of the outfit you see advertised can be used in a style that works for you. Again, it can be a challenge but when it comes together you look great! As always, I can help so please call because I love my job! Until next time,

"The List"

2008-05-15T11:02:00.005-05:00

Today there won't be a topic. I am going to give you an all important list to get you through all seasons. What is best for your body type, the hard, cold facts! Here we go (in no particular order):

shoes are important, style, color and condition
curlier hair adds pounds, straighter hair elongates
panty lines are never appropriate
bigger clothes just make you look bigger, they don't hide
corporate climate has generally loosened some but professionalism and modesty still take priority,although with accents, color, and fit you can still look modern
shoes and bags don't have to match anymore
don't let size dictate your purchases, you may need to go up or down, everyone does, it depends on brand and designer
if you have wide hips, balance by bringing focus to collarbone and shoulders
don't wear faded, stained, or torn clothing, it is a reflection of you
to disguise a tummy, wear a flowy top that ends right past the hip bone, a longer shirred top, an A-line skirt, but beware the maternity look
most women look best with their hem just above the kneecap, maybe and inch or so up or down; although much shorter women need to show more leg; age and height should dictate
if you are wearing a body hugging dress, invest in an undergarment that shapes you
find a good tailor, most people will need one at some point
dress the body you have now, not will or did have

Okay, I'll stop for now. I'll have more later. Talk to you soon!

Reflections on a Closet

2008-05-01T13:36:00.004-05:00

I started on my hands and knees on the floor. I found a pair of Target flipflops and boots that were way old and didn't even fit anymore! As you can see, sometimes it's do as I say, not as I do. There is no excuse for my closet to be in the shape it was, although, I keep telling my husband it's too small so how could I help it!? So, is the closet a reflection of me, my life. Yeah, I think it was. There was stuff (not just clothes) not needed anymore, it was not terribly organized, winter was not put away yet (but certainly not wearing!), impulse pieces, etc. So, the other day, in I went and put some order to my clothing. A stylist should do as she says! Now, it's mostly good, bags of items have gone to Goodwill, shoes are in order, sweaters folded and packed, and only things I love and that fit are at home in my small closet. How's yours doing? Does the clothing represent body issues, disorganization, life baggage? If it does, don't feel alone and feel that it is hopeless. It's not. You've heard the rules before, if you haven't worn it in....you just need someone to cheer and guide you through the process. There are very easy and simple ways to clean out and fill in with what makes you look and feel like you. Who you are and want to be. Call me, I've been there and I'll help. Thanks and have a great weekend!

Proportion and Such

2008-04-24T11:40:00.002-05:00

Hello, it's been awhile!!!! To my 8 readers (just kidding) i'm sorry it's been so long. Today I just wanted to ramble a minute about length and height, heavy and light, wide and skinny etc. For instance, if you have chosen a great billowy top, belted or not, the bottom half of the outfit should be fitted or body skimming. A flounced or gored skirt won't work, there will be a balloon effect. The opposite is also true, if your top is very form fitting then a wide leg pant or fuller skirt will look just right. If you are lucky enough to be tall and slender, fitted top to bottom is fine. If you happen to be under around 5'6 or so, you will need to be aware of your skirt, shorts and pant lengths. Your skirts do not generally need to be below your knee, a tad above or depending on your age, go shorter. Cropped pants are tricky too, make sure enough calf is showing or your legs will look chopped. Shorts will follow the same rule as skirts. Jewelry falls into this category also. If you have one piece that really stands out, it is bold, colorful, heavy, lots of metal, heavily gemmed, etc., don't make it fight for notice. The other pieces need to be kept simple. And sometimes a "fierce" pair of shoes will be all you need! What you can do this spring is mix textures, subtle patterns, colors, and dressy pieces with more casual items. Remember also the rule, just because it's your size doesn't' mean it fits! Call me for help with all this and more. Thanks and have a wonderful weekend..... Blame all typos on my cat!

Observations

2008-04-08T11:22:00.002-05:00

I learn so much when I go out of town. It is a great people watching opportunity. These are some "styles" I saw: Knee length leopard coat and pants, in Tampa, around 80 degrees; long bleach blond hair, large bust with a TIGHT white top, white short shorts, heels, hot pink lipstick, and around 55 years old; bathing suits way too small; and of course jeans, too short, too tight, too low, pleated waists and straight legs. Some would say they're happy with the way they look. I agree, don't change because some magazine tells you to, but there is a difference in being secure in your body and style and looking ridiculous. On the other hand, there were women and men of all shapes and sizes with great spring looks; bermuda shorts, flats, and flowy tops, straight jeans and colorful heels, wonderful warm weather dresses. I love spring, it is a wonderful time to spruce up your look. Again, there are some great deals at the stores now so take an afternoon or evening and cruise the sale racks. And of course, the new summer looks are all over the place with color, texture, and design. Get in touch and let me work with you to feel and look great this summer!

Good Info

2008-03-28T08:52:00.002-06:00

There are several magazines out now that I think have some very informative articles. The first is Allure. The whole publication (I think) is dedicated to skin care and anti-aging products. Skin care stuff can get so overwhelming and pretty repetitive but this magazine has done a good job of listing over-the-counter products and prescription recommendations. The second is this months' In Style. It is all about color and what skin tones look good in which shades. Plus, tons of good outfit ideas. Just remember, the color section is guide, not the last word on what would look good on you. A third one that I enjoy looking at is Lucky. It is not geared toward women over age 40 but younger women can get some funky ideas from the outfit selections. Of course to get the latest take on runway fashions, Vogue should be your choice. And finally, to be informed on all the fashion industry news and looks for fall/winter, the publication Women's Wear Daily is the bible! Hope some of this helps, also, be checking the stores for spring sales, they will already have their really warm weather, summer looks out and be looking to move the spring items. And of course, call me to do it all for you! See ya next time......

Too Casual?

2008-03-15T11:35:00.002-06:00

For the past several days I've been hearing and reading about this topic. A few days ago on Oprah, the rule was no gym clothes outside the gym. Well, I've seen some pretty chic looking women in their gym clothes. So, let's clarify. We'll start with the don'ts....sweats, sweatshirts, colored ankle socks; short shorts; ratty t-shirts; and old beat up tennis shoes just to name a few. Sorry, but these are never ok except to paint your house! We all know that sometimes you've changed from work into casual clothes or forgotten about an errand you need to run and are certainly not going to "dress" for it. But, beware of what's easiest. If you don't want to see someone you know looking like you do, don't wear it! Black stretch workout pants or capris that fit are the safest, but, with no panty lines or bulges. Sorry. If those don't fit your body type then go with a pair that are less stretchy, more knit, that fit just below the belly button, not an elastic waist. An elastic waist on any pant will age you unbelievably. Pair those with a colorful, body skimming (not hugging) t-shirt and maybe a lightweight sports vest. Remember, few women can get away with a tight, stretch sports pant and look good. And finally, although I do love comfort and casual, going out for the day with some style is always my first choice. If I can help you in any way, just call!

Light, Bright, White!!!

2008-03-06T17:09:00.003-06:00

White jeans, white jackets, white sweaters, white shirts...the list goes on. It's time to bring them out, as long as it's not a linen or light weight cotton. And...not head to toe white. Pair your white jeans on a cool day with a long sleeve top in a bright color and throw a denim jacket over it or put a black sweater on with some black flats or black cowboy boots. Nothing is more classic than a crisp white blouse and khakis or jeans. Put on a pair of brown or tan mules with a bit of a heel or a driving loafer. If you are a bit younger, wear a ribbed tank in a bright color or a white t-shirt under a white 3/4 sleeve jacket and a pair of slim jeans, too cute! There are a ton of things you can do with white pieces. Find a look you like in a magazine and find similar pieces where you shop and you have your outfit, just make sure it fits! Or better yet, show me a look and I'll find it for you! How easy is that? I'll be waiting for your call~~

Ready for Monday?

2008-03-02T20:53:00.002-06:00

I hope everyone enjoyed the beautiful weekend we had here in Nashville. But, Mondays must come and with that everyday clothing choices, especially if you have a job out of the home. This usually means not as laid back and unimportant as the weekend. Everyday you present yourself to those around you and like it or not, the way you look has an impact. For this milder temperature we are having, all the 3/4 length sweaters, jackets, coats, blouses, etc. are great. The jackets especially have different cuts and the fuller swing jacket is great if you are blessed by being a little wider than you'd like. Make sure the shoulder, neckline, and across the bust fit. It is also time to start pulling in some lighter weight fabrics and put away the dark, bulky sweaters and heavy wool pants. This is particularly easy to do in this part of the country with our fairly early spring. Most likely we will have more days like today than freezing cold from now on. Hope this helps and of course contact me if you'd like help with your spring wardrobe. Thanks...

Leaving a comment...

2008-03-01T19:16:00.002-06:00

Hey everyone, if you're having trouble leaving a comment, just click the word comment, write, and click name/url. Leave your name and ignore the url. I think it will go then. I'll be posting on "style stuff" tomorrow. Check it out!

WELCOME!!!

2008-02-28T12:10:00.000-06:00

As I sit here contemplating this site of mine, I'm thrilled with the opportunity to talk to so many about a subject I love.....what to wear, when to wear it, where to get it, what color, etc.! The subject definitely has it's pros and cons and needs to be kept in perspective, but, let's face it, if you're at my site, the way you look is important to you. I hope for this to be a running dialogue about current looks, wardrobe issues, personal appearance, and of course, shopping. Hopefully, in the process, I'll be able to meet some of you and help update your style one on one. It's a fun experience and one my past clients have enjoyed. Spring is a GREAT time to start!